Still cant moving on....

That's alright; at least your feelings were honest in the relationship. Disappointments are a part of life. Simply learn to grow from them and pick yourself up and move on. Get involved in some pleasant and constructive activities. And if you are financially capable, then go places or do things you have always wanted to do. You will be surprised at how soon all that means much now will fast become intangible.

everything is change with time dear.i love a boy ,but he never cares,he allways just want to go with other girls,but see on me,i am still with him,he is a lier,and i just want to shut his lips,but now i don't think about anything,i just wish to god ,please god do something good with with gurvinder,and if possible i want that he never tell me to lie,now i just wish to god,nothing else,i am so sad now a days,this is just because of love,if we love someone,then we want him compelety mine,but this is not possible that crush is allways success,i think everything will be fine with spending of time

one of my wife's friend told us once that the worst disease out there is not leprosy, not AIDS and not cancer but rather the feeling of being unwanted and taken for granted. but give your self time to cry, time to mourn and time to think. but of course give yourself time to heal. time to stand up and time to make yourself feel that you are special and you can find some one else who is worth it. life is too short for you to spend it on crying on spilled milk. get up and buy a new carton of milk. hugs

You don't have to worry about it. All you need is some booze and an overnight trip to a stripclub. It'll be over soon, just invite some friends and strippers or stripper friends, whichever you have, and just have fun.

Hi mods ! I do empathize with your situation . Many of us have gone through such situation . We all know nothing is static in this world . We keep moving from one thing to the other . It may take time but I am sure you will also be able this situation . Time is a great healer and gradually you will adjust with this if not be able to forget it totally . Love is not nonsense but the people who fail to understand its worth are useless . So better forget and forgive them . Be more creative and make new friends . Work will make you forget everything . If you believe in God keep praying to Him to make strong to be able to move on with life . All the best buddy :-) God bless you !

You can only move on if you are ready for it. There is a time to greeve and there is nothing wrong by doing that. Some of us take a long time to, others seem to be able to go on after some days. Try to organize your thoughts. Good/bad, happy/unhappy, likes/dislikes, hopes, goals, wishes.

Did you guys just broke up? If you did then its just normal that you still have not move on. Just make yourself busy so that you won't have to think of him all the time. Try to avoid places that you guys go to before so that you won't be reminded of him. And surround yourself with good friends to give you love and support.

mods196621, I really do not see the point of your choice of passing your days in misery when there is a choice of making an effort to be happy. Why keep lamenting? Sure there will be glimpses or pop ups of memories which is really normal but letting it control and make you miserable is nothing but your own choice and doing. So, learn to recognize it and make an effort - spend time with your family, friends, coworker or organize your life with activities. I can tell you that you will not be able to get anywhere when you do not take the first step of stamping out on your own. You think you will get the answers or that he will call you and tell you the answers which you so need to hear? Think again, because he is reveling and having a party of his life while you brood and suffer in misery of your own choice. Stay where you are - it is your choice but he is not going to be in the same boat as you are. Realize that!

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It's hard to move on when you felt so deeply. Right now perhaps the best you might have is temporary relief..temporary escapes when for a while you forget. Of course it will come crashing back, but in time the pain will lessen and be less frequent. I know this doesn't really help a lot to hear, but it is true. I wish I had magic words to instantly heal you but for whatever reason we all have things we must face and go through even though it is painful. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to hurry past the pain..just trust and pray if you find that comforting.

Hi, many people including me have passed through that situation, but that is not the end of love journey, it has merely picked up and you have to let go of the broken relationship and create a room for a good one. A broken heart is not an end of the love, it comes to prepare one into a new and stronger relationship in future, just give it time and don't rush for it. When the heart is ready, you will not notice how it accept new love.

If your bf broke up with you only recently, then it's understandable that you still can't let go. But if it happened long ago, then I think it's better to let go and move on. Otherwise, it won't do you any good in the long-term. I understand that it can be hard to let go and move on if you have invested a lot of your emotions, etc, into that relationship. But if you don't let go and move on, you are not doing yourself any justice. Is that man really worthy of your love? I don't think so becos if he is, he wouldn't have left without a word.

if you want to move out of this sorrow,just keep concentration on the works you know.my best way to keep out of worries is i spend time with kids,you know those kids are wonderful,they ever keep us in smile,when u see their faces u will get smile in your face without knowing your self so try this it will help you a lot