Mixed marriage between Catholic and Protestant.
@headhunter525 (3548)
India
September 13, 2011 3:28am CST
Does the Catholic officially recognise a mixed marriage between a Protestant and a Catholic in Protestant Church?
I heard that Catholic are taught to raise children of mixed marriage as a Catholic. Does it apply only to those marriage in Catholic church or marriage ceremony which is held in Protestant church also?
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@urbandekay (18278)
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13 Sep 11
I don't know but I think Christians should be wary of marrying Catholics, too much corruptions and deviation from scripture
all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
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14 Sep 11
I know but it is a little two-faced to claim Catholics are less judgemental at least the leaders there of. Understand my comments as aimed only at the leaders of the Roman Church
all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
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15 Sep 11
Oh well, come on, surely you would admit that the Roman Church has a history being judgemental?
But we must, as Jesus recommends, draw a distinction between judging the person and the act. And it is to the act that my comments pertain. Now correct me if I am wrong but did the Pope not say Protestants are not proper Christians?
So, my question would then be, how can a Protestant be married to a member of a Church that believes only they are true Christians?
all the best urban
@iWrite4ivko (28)
• Slovak Republic
15 Sep 11
I agree with Casandrina. Sure its not a good idea.
But... My girlfriend is catholic and Im from baptist church. Actually she has really strong relationship with Christ. She disagrees with many teaching of catholic church. I think in this case its OK. The most important is whether she/he has personal relationship with christ. And if she does, than she will understand whats going wrong in catholic churches. Else it wont work.
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
27 Sep 11
Catholic and Protestant are both denominations of Christianity. While there is difference in doctrine (interpretation of Biblical texts), I find it very funny that a devoted and practicing Christian would care that much about denominational guidelines. Simply be a Christian aka Christ-like and you will have no need to dispute trivial differences.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
13 Sep 11
My daughter is protestant, and her hubby is/was catholic. I don't think the church recognizes their marriage, but the government does, and that's all that truly matters. She was willing to switch to being Catholic, for the sake of her hubby and any future children, but the priest was very (VERY) rude and said he would not let her into the classes, nor would he marry them. IE: she should stay with her protestant church and not marry this catholic man! Instead of gaining a faithful new member in the catholic church, the priest lost one; he quit the catholic church to became protestant. To kind of answer your question, I think the catholic church would not recognize a marriage ceremony held in a protestant church because they didn't recognize my daughter & her hubby's.
@headhunter525 (3548)
• India
20 Sep 11
Thanks for the post. Almost all the Catholic priest I meet are nice. But I am not surprised there are a rude ones here and there. I guess, even among Protestants Lutheran teaches 'transubstantiation'. But I don't consider that to be so big an issue. I am okay either way.
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
24 Sep 11
Good question. My knowledge on this is probably quite outdated, but I'll have a go!
A young couple in my bible study group are of such an arrangement. They seem very happy & comfortable with each other, though they are childless. The guy is or was Catholic & the girl is still Lutheran. I think they both like this particular Lutheran Church better than the Catholic Churches in the area & that may be the only big reason.
From what I can recall, there is a lot more paperwork involved in such a marriage & sifting through future possibilities & details that either or both parties may not feel sure about or comfortable in discussing. My own marriage preparation was quite simple & consisted of a series of written tests that we had to individually fill out & these were handed in & sent to head office for processing; the results were returned to the minister about a week later & we were called in to discuss them. The tests took about an hour in total, from memory, though it seemed like five minutes at the time!
In answer to the original question, I think the Catholic Church do recognize it, but in 50/50 cases, the "rules" - which may have changed - seem heavily skewed in favour of the Catholic partner, particularly if the Catholic Church holds the ceremony. There was a book called "so what's the difference?" which highlighted a whole host of points to note in such a marriage - it certainly put me off & I left all the Catholic girlies well alone! I think it was published in 1968 & things may have changed since then - do you think?
I think there should be more such marriages & would be in favour of seeing things worked out on a practical & common-sense level that is equally beneficial to both parties & helping each other to continue their journeys in Christ. Would it be too much to expect more peace between the churches if more people were of such mixed marriages? Would Churches be more prepared to put dogma & doctrine aside in favour of growing together in the love of Christ & encouraging mutual support of each others journeys?