Is it true? Acceptance of mistake is most important than doing the mistake

India
September 13, 2011 7:59am CST
I observed here a mylotter who is the most senior member of the mylot. Everyone knows today her discussion was in first position in mylot digest..I feel hearty happy because really her thoughts is very nice.. She accept her mistake even everyone knows her mistake is not there but she know to acceptance is most important than doing.. I love her words and I think this is very helpful for everyone’s life “Quitters never Win and Winners never Quit” and thanks madam to share the discussion really at least your discussion will appreciate me… What you think acceptance is good way or argument is necessary on it. If your mistake is not there but someone is saying yes this is your mistake.
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11 responses
• United States
13 Sep 11
Yes my dear friend, life is about accepting and moving forward. We all make mistakes and we cannot judge anyone for the mistakes, but more on how they correct them. She felt bad not so much about her loss of the discussion but more so she has such a caring heart and feels that others loss because of her. Here on myLot it is always a trial and error, it is up to us to accept mistakes, correct them and move forward. I would not argue if someone says to me that I made a mistake, I would like to find out what exactly they view as it being my mistake and be able to use their opinion and mine to rectify my situation. So I can accept and rectify.
• United States
13 Sep 11
Yes I did see improvement with Vidhya and don't worry my friend yours will come also. You do have to have 95.5/100 to make the blue so it will take longer but remain true to you and it will come. It took me a very long time to go up one point. I never allowed anyone to change who I was and or how I participated here and eventually it does come. Yes I like your new style, you are doing great.
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• India
13 Sep 11
Friend I alone today Vid also get blue star I feel happy because our efforts is work..but not on me.. Friend now this is my new way to start the discussion observe the discussions of others and start my own discussion on it..you like this way I am doing good or not..you are right my dear friendlife is about accepting and moving forward.. thats right we all do the mistake but not know about this till the other is not showing us...you are good to rectify it...
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13 Sep 11
I love this expression about making mistakes and learning: "Experience is what you have just after you needed it." We learn by making mistakes (provided we learn from them), so I agree: accepting that you've made a mistake, learning from it and gaining experience is much more important than the mistake itself. In a way, mistakes are good things, like bugs in software. If you never see anything go wrong, how do you know it's working the way it should? The best manager I ever worked for had this approach. She wasn't interested in blaming people for mistakes, just in figuring out how to fix them - as long as you learned and everything was repaired, the mistake itself was actually a good thing.
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13 Sep 11
It's not entirely honest of me to say that she never blamed anyone. She never sought to blame anyone: if upper management wanted someone to point fingers at and say "It's his fault", she'd blame me. She knew I didn't care and, like her, was only interested in solving the problem. She also knew I never, ever wanted to be a manager (and still don't), so being blamed for stuff wouldn't affect my career.
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• India
13 Sep 11
Thanks sir to respond on my discussion you are right mistake means learning something when mistakes is happen we learn something...from the mistake..really she never blame to anybody so I love her...
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
13 Sep 11
When you make a mistake there are several important things to do or to remember. One is to admit you did it. Another is to try not to do it again. The other thing is to remember that everyone makes mistakes. We cannot learn from our mistakes unless we admit them, so I think we all are in a learning process right now.
• India
13 Sep 11
Wow! friend great response you are right and all things are very important admit it,try to do not again, and learn when admit it...great...
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
14 Sep 11
Hi there! There is no harm in accepting our mistakes. If I have committed any mistake, I do not feel shy to accept it at the first instance. We are human beings and we are not infallible, we will surely commit mistake because we just can not alert all the time. There are some who do not admit their mistakes or put blame on others, those kind of people are not appreciated by others.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
I do accept mistakes because it will never make me a lesser person. There is nothing wrong accepting mistakes,it even gained more respect from other people. So,if I know it is my mistake, I will surely admit and say my apologies. Have a good day sis jaiho®
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• India
13 Sep 11
Nice my dear sis and I also do this because due to this our relations make more strong..if we admit our mistake means in others eyes we are more important person and really Hetley madam is nice women...like you
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• India
14 Sep 11
Yes surekha this is true accept the mistake is most important than doing most of the people start argument on it and they dont want to accept their mistake even happen by them...but I always ready to accept my mistake...no one can say I am doing argument...
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Sep 11
some people really find it hard for them to accept their mistakes. some people only finds one's decision a mistake when it only makes that decision not in his favor. we all have our own principles. and sometimes, it's a good thing to talk about it without the arguments.
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
Hello Surek, Whether Senior, Veteran or not, People in mylot tends to make mistakes and i have make terrible mistakes myself. but the most important thing is that people learn from those mistakes and never repeating it again. that's why Winners never quit, because no matter how many times they lost a discussion or any other post, they still strive to make a better post. Quitters necessarily don't have an opportunity to see the light of a hope for improvement. Accepting that you make a mistake and Learning not to do that again is the most important thing for mylot..otherwise, you risk loosing account or get banned. believe me.
• India
13 Sep 11
Ohhh friend what is last sentence my account will be loos otherwise banned but why which mistake is happen due to me...
• India
13 Sep 11
Yes friend you are right the most important thing is the people learn from the mistake and try to never repeat it again but here I really love to hetley madam because like lobster sir are saying she never blame to anybody.. Friend please explain me last line...
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• Philippines
13 Sep 11
if you violate a guideline, never repeat that violation again. if you make repetitive mistakes the admin will delete your account. but i don't think you're the type who makes mistakes too often. hatley isn't getting younger like you thought she would but she doesn't make mistakes all the time. just sometimes. like we all do. just don't repeat it.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 11
Hello surekha, yes every one learns from the mistakes and learn when we accept that we commited mistake.I have done lots of mistakes in the past and learnt from it which made me mature.There are people who are adamant to accept their mistakes easily and repeat the same mistake in future as well which becomes terrible and they loose something from it.
• India
13 Sep 11
Actually friend we should learn from her because she is most elder than us 86 yrs is much more and even she is accepted her mistake even the mistake is not her... and her words is so nice winners never quit and quitters never win due to this nature I love her like my grandma
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@fantabulus (4000)
• India
13 Sep 11
hiii surekha Yes this is good habit to accept our own mistake and I always ready to admit my mistake..I know if not admit then argument will increase so acceptance is a good way to stop the argument...
• India
14 Sep 11
hi surekharathi! I really really appreciate your way of facing the problems in our life. in today's world none is ready to accept his\her mistake. But the true person is that who accept his mistake. This leads to very healthy relationship with everyone. Acceptance of mistakes is the non-violent and peaceful way to clear all the problems and situation. This is the most decent and sound way to clear all the problems in one's life.