Coincidence?
By dheckerz
@dheckerz (473)
Philippines
September 13, 2011 9:35pm CST
I'm not really fan of this thing called coincidence, but there are things that happened to me lately which made ask, Is this a coincidence? I guess it is just bound to happen in which i least expect these things to coincide. Someone at work is trying to pull me down, and I'm not sure if the things that happened to me outside work and people I met that is also related to her is just a coincidence or also done by her. Do you believe in coincidence?
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3 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Sep 11
No I don't believe in coincidence.
Might be it's all done by the same person what is happening to you or that person changed you that much already that outside your work you start attracting the same kind of people who think they can do the same to you.
Frequently we are not aware of how we can change because of what others do to us.
But.. those who love to pull others down have a fine nose for that.
I would advice you not to neglect it. Take your place/space and show them you are there (by being present, showing confidence, strengh, etc).
And last but not least: believe in yourself!
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Thank you so much for this wonderful advise. I am careful in everything I do and who I deal with in these days. She seemed to have build a huge conspiracy to ruin my life. I told my boyfriend and bestfriend about the situation so that they too are aware.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
14 Sep 11
I don’t believe in coincidence because my personal beliefs include the fact that everything happens for a reason and there is usually a connection to every incident to the bigger picture. I would be wary of this person because she may have others doing her ‘dirty work’ for her. I would be on high alert if I was you…Hope it all works out ok and things get easier...
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Hi Paula, thanks for the advice and I guess that's true. I'm actually worried now since she seems to have planned her way to screw me up. I don't want to be paranoid but I told my bf of what is going on so that someone is aware of the real thing besides me.
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
14 Sep 11
When we perceive two actions to be coincidental connected, often there is a real hidden connection, we just cannot see it. You are perceiving connections that probably are there. She could have mentioned you and without being asked, some of her "friends" may be trying to help her.
