mano po!

@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
September 13, 2011 9:49pm CST
I guess, some of us now are not practicing anymore , being greeted by letting their hands touch the foreheads of our kids , nieces or nephews and us to our parents , aunts , uncles and grannies or in other words “mano”. But here in our place it is still very well practiced. Even my friend from Canada still let their two kids do them whenever they come home to the Philippines or in Canada when they meet other Filipinos or foreign friends as a greeting. Actually, it’s one of our practices that is well loved by the American husband of one of my aunties. He said he feels so proud when all the kids would get his hand and say mano po. It’s one custom that is well appreciated by people. Don’t you think so too guys?
11 responses
• China
14 Sep 11
Kids get elder's right hand on themselves 'foreheads and say mano po to them , whereby to send their respects to elders.What a moving scene it is!I think such a good tradition may be traced up to ancient times.There is a need for you to hand it down generation after generation.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Yes, it's one custom that is so humbling to the one who will do the "mano". And you are correct, Filipinos should teach them to their children and have it handed down from generation to generation. I think the elders should be strict about it, so it will not be forgotten.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
For this tradition not to be broken, we must see to it that they practice it at all times. Every time they arrive from a business outside, they should be reminded to make "mano po". It's us that should remind them always.
• China
15 Sep 11
Here we also have a good tradition where we respect the elder and love the young.Now I am very strict with my granddaughter who is on the right side of 6,let her learn to respect the elder.We must keep up our good tradition.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I'm guilty of this XD Whenever I see my aunts/uncles/titas/titos/ninongs/ninangs I would approach them and do "beso-beso" rather than "mano" :P I'm not too sure when I stopped doing it though. Even my younger cousins, nephews and nieces don't practice it anymore. We only do "mano" when they reach out their hands and we will do "mano" I remembred two incidences about this. One is my nephew. My aunt (his lola) extended her hand, expecting him to do "mano" but what he did is he stared at it then looked at his mom then took the hand and kissed it like what those princes do on movies XD It's funny that I laughed hysterically :P Another is when my guy friend ranted about his mom. His new GF visited his house for the first time so he can introduce her to his parents. Everything went well and after the girl left, his mom commented that the girl is not respectful enough to do a "mano". This even surprised me too. I think a lot of older people would appreciate "mano" :)
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
You know what, i think there's something in doing "mano" actually. It is as if when we make mano, we seem to be so respectful, because we get the hand to put it in our forehead. It's a humbling act , really. Both gender can do it without qualm. But with beso-beso, there seems to be hypocrisy, it being casually practiced by those in high society. Men tend to be ashamed doing it, coz' they think it's more of a feminine act. However, because everyone is copying "beso'beso", it has overshadowed our "mano po".
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
I do think you're right. "Beso-beso" now-a-days seems to be something common and I do get your point on the hypocrisy part. Seems like I need to go back to the "mano po" action real soon :P
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
It is strictly still well practiced here in our area because majority of out relatives are very particular with good manners. I have to admit sadly that most children nowadays have grown to be distant with what has been practiced before most especially with when it comes to showing respect.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
That's nice to hear, that you really are practicing it there in your place . I am also particular of kids having good manners. And for me ,not doing Mano Po, when a nephew or a niece comes to the house is of bad manner. I would immediately tell them that they haven't done it yet, and they would readily do so. It's up to us to remind the younger generation about doing Mano Po actually.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I still use Mano Po as a greeting every time there's an elderly coming to our house. Honestly, I don't use it to my aunts since I usually kissed them in the cheeks. I think this Mano Po greeting is one of the things that I would love to teach my children in the future.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
We do practice it too among our family. But for our Aunts, we usually kiss them on the cheek. But for those Uncles, we do Mano Po. With Mano Po, girls and boys, olds and youngs alike can do it without getting ashamed of ourselves.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I teach my kids to "mano po", all of us in our clan practice it including the family of my wife. Mano po is more for greeting so it's also combined with hugs and kisses especially when guest relatives are about to leave. Mano po when they arrive, hugs and kisses when they are leaving. Yes we have to keep that tradition alive, it's very Filipino
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
That's nice to hear. As the parents , we should teach our children how valuable it is to practice "mano po". Actually, sometimes i would extend my hand to the kids of my friends. And they do take it and let it touch their forehead. I feel proud when they do that to me.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
this makes me proud to be a Filipino. the custom of doing mano to old family members is still practiced in our family. now i feel old when my cousins children would do that to me but still i allow them to do so because i want them to pass that tradition over to our next generations because it seemed to be gone nowadays still there is the greeting but some would kiss their parents instead. a more modernized greeting endangering the filipino custom.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
I feel that way too, whenever some grown niece and nephews were made to make mano to me. But i am touched when they do so, because you can feel the respect they want to give to you. I just hope too that this mano po will still be inculcated in every generation and not to be replaced totally by kissing our parents or kissing as a greeting. To me, it's still humbling to practice the Mano po.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
15 Sep 11
yes, we still practice this custom and even visayans do not use "po" in their dialect, i taught them that this is the way we show respect.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
That's true, we should really still practice "mano Po" and teach our kids about it. Also as you said, the use of po and opo should also be taught because it's also one way of Filipinos showing their respect and manners.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
We are from a part of the country where the mano is not practiced very much, but, there are ways to show respect for the elders like the use of proper language. It's always nice to know that some kababayans still teach their children our values even if they don't reside here.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Sometimes, it's us older ones who should teach our young ones some good values we have as Filipinos. "Mano" being distinct from the rest of the world, is one practice that is very Filipino. It is sad to note, if it will not be practiced anymore by Filipinos, though change is inevitable indeed.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
I think this is one Filipino custom that we should really be proud about. If in other countries they see to it that they bow to elderly people or those who are superior to them, we as Filipinos should observe this polite manner too. It's sad that this isnt being put into practice by most of us anymore. To be honest, we do not practice it at home, I grew up kissing (beso-beso) our elders but not doing the "pagmamano". With what's happening in our country nowadays, ie. kids being impolite and rude, I wonder if "pagmamano" will withstand all of these and still be known by the future generation.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
I think this Filipino custom should really be handed down from generation to generation. We as elders should see to it, that even if we don't get to practice it at home, it should be taught to our children. Hence, when they meet other older Filipinos, they can greet them by "mano po".
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
Hi Simplyd! Mano Po or kissing the hands of the elderly is one of the best practices that we Filipinos should be proud of. This is a tradition that is worth practicing for it shows respect to the elderly and I admire those Filipinos who still do this even if they are now living in foreign countries. I can say that you can take the Filipinos out from the Philippines but you cannot take the Philippines out from the Filipinos. My brother and his family immigrated in Canada a couple of years ago and they still practice a lot of Filipino tradition including "mano po". They believe that even if they are now Canadian citizens it is still very important to teach their kids this as a sign of respect and helps strengthen the family bond. My parents taught us "Mano Po" and I also teach this to our kids every time they leave the house and when they get home from school. I think it is up to us parents and elders to continue this practice. It is also a valuable practice that our children can pass on to our grandkids and future generation as well.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Mono Po is really a nice tradition to be handed from one generation to generation. I do appreciate people like your brother and my friend from Canada too, who taught their children the value of doing "mano po". And mind you, when their kids do that to us, they feel proud of themselves as we are too for themselves.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
we still practice the "mano po" system in our family..but yes it is now slowly disappearing in some Filipino's out there..it is our way to show respect to our elder relatives..i only wish this tradition of ours will not totally vanished as it is known to be one of the good values that the filipino has..
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
How i wish "mano po" will not disappear in the practices or customs of the Filipinos. Is is a distinct mark of a Filipino, because most countries would greet by hugging and kissing , which is already common. I am glad that in our family, this "mano po" is very much practiced.