When you have done all you can do and its still not enough.

Hi there!! Guess we all have a set of rules and regulations for toddlers. First things first, kids ape their elders. So try to portray good manners, wear decent and modest clothes, always say the truth, be nice to your parents and in laws and not to forget your husband. Be polite and gentle with your husband, and explain to the kids that your dad is the head of the household and we should obey him and not talk back. Instill in them the habit of serving their elders. The more you and hubby respect each other the more the kids will respect you two. Hope that helps.