love
By sql_cell
@sql_cell (1427)
Indonesia
September 15, 2011 2:47am CST
Is it true that our love for someone, it could disappear just like that, without a trace? The first time we love someone, we love her very much, but as time passes, love is lost without a trace, and there is no reason that can be disclosed. Does this happen? or just bored? or we can not understand the situation?
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9 responses
@ennjo1990 (26)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
I like your line that "once you love a person,it became a part of you."
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@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Thanks ennji1990..
To sql_cell, even though you don't love him/ her anymore she/he 's still a part of you. Maybe you'll ask me how, it's because that person teach you something in life. Your experience to love and be or not be loved let you realize things in relationship. That's what I meant for "a part".
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Sep 11
ia sometimes to such cases.
Sometimes love goes as come and it's not nice but there are moments that we can not avoid.
Love is transient, and many times we can not explain why is it.
obviously love was not meant to be a lifetime with you.
as you do not believe so.
and you are not unique in the fact that love is gone without any explanation.
nice day!
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Sep 11
I think you are confused lust or may be mix up blind love with love, the situation you described sound more like a person falling into lust or love someone blindly that truly in love, you can't lost without a trace in a true love relationship, it is just not possible in a real world scenario unless you are living in a surreal world of a dreamer.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Hello 
sql_cell, My Love for my first ex is gone a long time ago, i realized that the whole feeling was merely infatuation. but believe me, that inspired me to strive harder and make myself even better person. if love is gone we just have to let go of each other so that we can let others experience Love as well..
sql_cell, My Love for my first ex is gone a long time ago, i realized that the whole feeling was merely infatuation. but believe me, that inspired me to strive harder and make myself even better person. if love is gone we just have to let go of each other so that we can let others experience Love as well.. 
@haopee (493)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Love pertaining to feelings is like that. Even two timers who've felt genuine love would still have some trace of feelings for their exes. So I think that love as a feeling does die down like how any other relationship would without companionship.
However, most people who've been together with their spouses and life long partners have realized this already. This is why they have the gift of memories, commitment and communication. Memories are those that reinforces the feelings and communication becomes a nurturing medium of it. Commitment is also there to keep it secure.
@iWrite4ivko (28)
• Slovak Republic
15 Sep 11
my opinion is that love is somehow deeper than just a feeling... its a decision..
if u build ur relationship on qualities that might be gone in a few years.. (looks etc.. ) that wont work very well...
but if u go deep... i think thats the right way
@ennjo1990 (26)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
I was a victim of being loved so much but in the end love became a bubble that popped and disappeared. I tell you, it is painful.
