What if your boyfriend was not in love with you?

Philippines
September 15, 2011 3:40am CST
You were so happy with your relationship that you think he is yours forever. The relationship lasted for long months. What if one day he will tell you that he was not in love with you long before you started the relationship? Lust may be the reason that he interpreted it as love or he may just be hopeless romantic.
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youless
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Sep 11
It will be hurtful to hear that he doesn't love me. It is so painful, however, I still have to end this relationship since he doesn't love me. This kind of relationship won't have a future. It is better to end it as soon as possible. You still have time to find another better one in the future. I love China
Amfyre
@Amfyre (512)
• Canada
20 Sep 11
Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't love you back? To me that makes no sense. It has no future like you said.
churchill1980
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
well, it is either you are blinded with love or your partner is just too good to portray something which he is not. sometimes, our partners actions and words would suggest the truth of what's really in their hearts, too bad that we are too blinded to recognize it because of the overwhelming love we felt. and we are the last person who would discover the lies. it is sad, it hurts if we learn that someone we love so much is just fooling us. it might also be that your partner is too good in lying that you could hardly recognize he's just playing with your emotions. there are people who would do everything they can to fool someone, and it would be too sad if we will be one of their victims. so in a relationship, we must not only use our heart, but foremost we should listen to our brain, it is more sensitive to judgment.
Zamara69
@Zamara69 (130)
• United States
20 Sep 11
You want a relationship..maybe he just wanted a bed mate..Sorry, I would dump him. Good Luck..