If divorce is so painful...why get divorced?

Well,do not imagine that in law because will keep disturbing your mind,keep your relationship with your husband remain faithful even he is at work.. I feel sorry to that in law got divorce,so not good.. So advance for your anniversary to your husband..

Congratulations on being happily married and soon renewing your vows. Sadly there are times that divorce is necessary and perhaps it is painful to go through but given some of the circumstances as to why the divorce is necessary perhaps it would not be healthy to stay married. I certainly did marry my ex-husband with the intent that it would not be for ever and ever but sadly he became a very dangerous man. It was one thing that my life was in danger but as a responsible mother of two little ones. I could not risk my children with it as well. Sometimes when our partner hurts us it does not mean we instantly stop loving them. So the process at times can be painful because we certainly do not go through the marriage with the preconception that some day we will divorce. So with time one does recover and for instance with me it was the best thing I did as I have two children I raised completely physically and financially on my own and both of them recently graduated college. Had I stayed in that environment, God only knows what and how my children would have turned out. So my friend as hard as it might seem, there are circumstances that do warrant divorces. I am glad that you have someone wonderful in your life and the blessing for me is that had I not gotten divorced, thereafter 6 years later I met the boyfriend that I do have. He is like a blessing and we have been together for almost 8 years.

I think not getting divorced can be even more painful than divorce in certain situations. If you are completely unhappy in your marriage, why continue with it? Especially if you both feel this way. I agree that you shouldn't divorce just because you have a fight every now and then, but when the situation is unbearable, it would be very painful to stay together.

Divorce is, of course, understood as unpleasant and unlikable nature of action. However, there are situations when one has to consider the matter of continuing with the wedlock more than thinking of a break of it because, the person who divorces suffers, his/her offspring and the family as well. In such situation as wise people do that they take time from each other and temporarily adopt living/staying separately. Later they discuss the matter to find maximum positive reasons for their living together as married couple and so on. Notwithstanding, in case the situation gets too tough and rough to save the marriage by trying various means, divorce stands as compulsory, otherwise, a life of restlessness etc. begins and that may cause losing health and some other complications in living and letting live. Although divorce becomes an unavoidable it becomes a must yet one must consider and reconsider on not divorcing as much it can be possible because after effect of it is bitter, seldom sweet. With regards, ARShams

You get divorced because the marriage is even more depressing and you want to live to and you hope sooner or later you will be able to love someone else. That is why people do go through a painful divorce (although there are also divorces that are not painful at all). It takes courage and a lot of energy to divorce, it is not an easy taken decision. Many people will never find the courage to do so because they prefere a bad life, even molesting, so the life they know, before starting a new life. Happy to hear you are doing great :-D

if you feel painful about your devorce, so you still love your wife or husband, but for me i am very happy to get devorce coz my exx husband stop bothering me and hit me up!!!