Is there any answer that can help me?
By upagato789
@upagato789 (3)
Bangladesh
September 15, 2011 5:27am CST
I cannot found my answer.I am fool so that my friend always tease me.I want to be friendly but they are very rude sometimes.Now i cannot go to university because my friend laugh to see me as i am laughing gas.I face intolerable sufferings because they are over smart that they forgot i am a human.So internet is my best palace i think computer,internet is better than a human.Now what can i do?
4 responses
@kalyani1234 (637)
• India
15 Sep 11
Hello upagato, welcome to mylot. I agree that internet is a good place where you can find friends who will listen to you and not make fun of you. But you have to also realize that this is only a virtual world, although the people participating are real and, with luck, you can make real friendships with them in real life also. Still, majorly this is quite an impersonal place. If you are feeling down in the dumps and just because you cannot stand the ridicule and insulting fun that your friends put up to you, then they are NOT your friends. Although, turning away from the university, I am sure you really want to go there, because of this, then you are only letting those nasty people win. Just go on ahead, do what you are best at and show them that you mean serious business.
You have no right to tolerate any kind of nonsense just as they don't have the right to harass you. Stand up to them and give it to them, right on their noses. Just don't let them discourage you from attending the university, because it is YOUR LIFE and not theirs, they don't feed you after all.
@marie_cuizon (191)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Hello upagato789! I hope you feel better now. You know what, in God's eyes' we are all special. So if your friends would make fun of you or tease you, then try to think that you are special in those people who truly care and love you, for who and what you are just like your family. Besides, if they are really your friends, they wouldn't dare to do things that can make you feel bad. Instead, take their criticisms as a challenge for your betterment and do not allow them to pull you down. You just have to believe in yourself. Cheer up friend! :-)
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
16 Sep 11
Friends Laugh WITH You..if these people are laughing AT you,they're not behaving as your Friends..I think you need some new ones...
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
15 Sep 11
Anyone that teases you has their own issues with themselves. You should distance your self as much as possible. As for the times you cant distance your self, try and look at them making fun of you because they are weak, and look at your self as strong each time you dont let what they say bother you.
