Why Kill him when you can move on?!

Wow people are different anymore. I am sure she was in a place in her life where she was experiencing so much pain. She has so much love for him and for him that when she become knowledge of this other women something ticks her and she goes crazy. This happens more often then we think.

hi LK, we really don't know what are behind it we can't judge her quickly she was under emotional stress maybe besides if someone cheated you all you can think is revenge without considering the consequences of your actions. remember last time I almost kill you happy mylotting

I can understand when women are traumatized by their philandering husbands, they no longer think rationally. The next thing they'll do is to finish them off. Don't ever wake the sleeping tiger or you'll not see daylight.

people have different thresholds. if that happened to me, though i would be very hurt, i would not waste my time planning on murdering him (although at first i could be thinking of killing him, but that would be an initial reaction). life is too precious to brood on useless people. but i am trying to understand to the best i can. as i said, her pain and emotional threshold is low. that makes her vulnerable. perhaps there were no others who were able to help her and be with her in her distress, or nobody bothered to show concern. perhaps she loves the husband too much (although for me, that must be reciprocated) and even more than the love for her child (although for me, i will always choose my children). we didn't really know what made her do that, and we do not know what we will do if we are in her shoes. easier said than done, as others say. but it is always important to have a life line, and God, to turn to in times of need. i had another concern regarding the incident.

Some people are just insecure and selfish instead of moving on and looking for someone and think about the past making themselves hurt even more and want to get revenge

but dude, seriously if you really love a person and you vowed to love each other, poor or rich, bad times or good times, and the person suddenly left you for some other person. I too would be really be mad at that, what is that vow now? its just a game for you? i mean wth everyone has a killer intent just waiting to be awakened. dude everything is easier said than done when you're not in that situation. Wait until you have the same situation before you judge someone, you dont even know the background of her life, family background, how he lived as a child, the time when she was with her husband, her school life, everything every people are raised uniquely and have feelings and attitude unique to everyone. im not really mad just saying facts :))

Yeah, by killing him, she also ruined her life. What would happen to her child now? If she wanted to avenge their child because the father wouldn't sustain her, she should have thought of the fact that she wouldn't be able to as well because she's in jail! And you're right about the looks. The song "Irreplaceable" by Beyonce just ran through my head. She should have listened to that.

I don't know why people do that, we have a lot of it here. One man who recently moved back in with his wife killed her--if he had moved out before, why not move out again? I don't understand people like that. They must be very, very sick.

Hi, LetranKnight25. Beautiful or unattractive, a woman shouldn't have to kill another man, whether he is good looking or not good looking at all. I do agree, that an attractive woman should not waste her time trying to wreck a man's life when she has so much going for herself too. A man just ain't worth killing. I have to look at things differently when I have a child. No man, no matter how rich, or attractive will get in the way with me living the rest of my life. If he isn't doing what he is supposed to be doing for me and for our child, then he has to go! Skit, skat!

that was really sad. i could not understand why some people resort to such horrible thing as killing someone and eventually destroy ones self including the life of their child. but i know it is easier said than done. crime of passion is how they call it, i call it "stupidity". i saw the woman on tv, she have the looks and she's still young. i wonder how low is her self worth to destroy her life for such a man who deserves nothing but to become a trash in a can. i was once a single mom, but i was able to raise my child with dignity, shame to the irresponsible father who never give any financial support, my child don't deserve a trash like him. i moved on and build a happy family that i have right now. everybody deserves to be happy, i would not live a miserable life with a husband from hell. that woman should have think a million times before committing such act.

Every person has a different aspect and attitude when comes of loving someone. People tend to be blind and crazy when inlove. When the one you love leaves you, the first thing that we feel is the anger and our heart be broken, then we may run after that person no matter what just to be with that person. Ans sometimes the last thing we do is the moving on process, because we can do that until we realized that is really over between the two of you. Maybe that girl still in the process of anger and needing to take her husband back to her life, and because of her anger she did not realized that what she did is too much and beyond what is not expected.

The things we do for love...

I guess some people are just too consumed by anger or hatred that they see nothing else. Some people don't know how and when to move on or they deny that they should take the next step. Even some people are in denial that their marriage and relationship isn't really working and being possessive and obsessive of another person isn't healthy for their individual selves and their relationship as well as the other party. People sometimes take simple things to the extreme. They are many reasons for it but they always turn ugly and for the worst. Sometimes, the notion that man is an rational being don't apply on each of us and not always on every occasion. What baffles me is that the rational side of the population seem to understand the people on the other side of the spectrum

yeah man we juat have one life so odnt wate your time and your lfe for something useless