How do you deal?

If your partner no longer has any feelings for you then why push it, sure it would hurt a lot but letting go would be the best option. It won't end well if you still wish to continue the current relationship with this emotional state.

I find it hard to answer coz i havent been in that situation. But if ever time would come that the one i love would leave me, I will just choose to let him go. I can never force him to be with me if he isnt anymore happy. I will try to accept his decision even though it hurts and move on. Maybe I deserve someone better.

I think in that case it is best to spend one or two months getting over him. Then it is wise to start seeing another person and try to get keen on him or her quickly. You should act as though you don't care about splitting up with the ex but stay friends with him. In time you will really get over your loved one that you lost. Hopefully by then you will be getting on well with the new person. Let us imagine two people were soul mates and yet they ended up splitting up. Months later they meet up but each has moved on to another relationship. They know they are still in love but due to the new relationship they can't have a second chance. In that case both of these people should have stayed single.

When my ex-boyfriend left me I cried a lot. I was really hurt, we had been to together for several years and I thought that our relationship was going to last. I moved away from our apartment and stayed with my parents for a couple of months and then I met my husband. When I think about the time when my ex-boyfriend and I broke up I remember how hurt I was and how painful it was, but today I am happy that he broke up with me. The relationship between my husband and I are much happier than my old relationship, and I don't miss my ex-boyfriend at all. The break-up was painful, but seen in a bigger perspective it was a very positive thing, because otherwise I wouldn't have met my husband.

of course i will be hurt mad at him but not pick a fight with him i will try my very best to move on make my time useful and interesting so i will forget about what happen set my mind that maybe we are not really for each other that someone out there better than him is waiting for me or the one for me who will never hurt me like he did

of course at first i will get mad at him why he will leave me but i will not pick up a fight . .it is really hurting on my part but i will try myself to move on. .keep myself busy on the things that keeps me interest . .maybe we are not meant for each other . .i know someday there will come a guy who will love me for the rest of my life and who will not hurt me like he did . . . God bless and good luck . .:)