Is it Exciting to get married???
By bessyjanmayi
@bessyjanmayi (278)
Philippines
September 15, 2011 10:03am CST
I'm just 21, but I am ready to get married if God will give me someone whom to marry. I don't really know how it feels to get married but I am so excited. Me and my friends, who are still single too, kept on dreaming about the guy to be our future husband. We don't really know who that guy would be but we just trust God to give us the perfect guy on his perfect time. The guy who would love God more that he would love me, a faithful Christian and those guys who know how to lead our home someday and have a good testimony. Well, it might be hard to find that kind of guy, but by the help of my god,, I know he will give me the very best according to His will. For those who are married, what do you felt on your wedding day? For those, who are single, engaged or going to be married very soon, what do you feel right now?
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13 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
15 Sep 11
My wedding day was miserable, actually. Everything went wrong and my mother was in the hospital. I was just distraught and barely functioning.
But marriage really doesn't mean that much. The love, commitment and true meaning of the relationship comes long before the physical act of getting married. Or at least it should. My relationship is no different and certainly no more valid for having a piece of paper and a social label attached to it.
@yuxin0426 (3)
• China
16 Sep 11
wow ,you are brave enough to take that decision .Becuase your marrige would be illegal in our country,and there will bw more troubles if the problems emerged after marry
@mabeldaclan (787)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
I think it is! I really think its exciting to be married. From the planning of the wedding, to the preparation, to the real wedding and the reception, and up to the married life. What's nice about being married is the thought that you have already found your other half. The one who promised you a lot of things before and will soon try to make all of those promises become reality. It's a really nice thought.
My man and I, have been planning about our marriage now. And even what our married life would be. I think, he is even more excited than I am -and that really makes me happy. I am just turning 20 this year and I know that those plans will be realized after a few years more. But, I'm still excited about the fact that someone wants to marry me.
(We already have names for our future kids).
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
It is really exciting to get married because knowing that you and your ultimate love will be together in one house and building a family is an extra ordinary happiness. However, entering marriage is also entering a much bigger responsibility, as a person and as a wife. Before you get married, you should be financially and emotionally stable because it would cause a lot of conflict and pain. But the good thing is, every day is like a blessing when you are together especially when you have a children.
@Norton100 (67)
• India
16 Sep 11
I am of your age so I understand your feelings. You are only 21 so you have an opportunity to find a man who you love. I think you are not yet in a relation with anyone. Getting married is a good feeling & getting married with the right person is a great feeling.
I'ts time to find someone now a person can also break your heart. B'coz this is just the begning. You learn bettre from these experiances. Than you will understand what is getting married with the right person. Best of luck... :)
@honeydimple (45)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Yes, very exciting as well as tiresome, why? because every single details needs to be attended to if you want it to be almost perfect at the day of your wedding. Another exciting thing in getting married is the thought of having to live and wake up each day with the one you love beside you.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Wow you are really excited ha.Well, i am older than you and still single and yes excited to be married someone that is God's will for me..
God's will is better than mine sometimes and always wrong if i chose my own will and not will of God..
I think you have to pray the person you know,or pray that God will give you the sign how to know the person the is for you,and in your age i do not know if that is the right time for you to marry,but if you are prepared about every thing,sure God will open the doors to give you the right person..
@celticeagle (166757)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Sep 11
You should get involved in other interests for it seems when you least expect it that special person comes along. If you are concentrating on finding the man of your dream you may try too hard and not meet the one for you. And be sure you have very strict boundaries set up for yourself so you don't waste time with men who are not your equals. Life is short. Good luck to you!
@GemmaR (8517)
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15 Sep 11
Getting married should be exciting if you're with the right person, because it means that you think that you have chosen to be with the person who you wish to be with for the rest of your adult life. If you're with the wrong person then I suppose that you might find that you have doubts about whether you should be getting married or not as the wedding day approaches. However, if you have doubts, you should remember that it is normal to be stressed about a wedding. If you don't think that you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, though, you should not really think about getting married at all.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
It depends. There are times that a girl marry's a guy because she is pregnant, or because its their parents decision. But generally speaking, getting married should be more than exciting. It is another phase in everyone's life and if the person you're expressing your vows with, is a person that you love most.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Sep 11
whether it is exciting to be married but exciting and very enjoyable at least in my opinion.
because once a real wedding, and if love is great and sincerely.
experience is truly enjoyable and unique thing to be tested and can not be described in two or three words.
I wish you to experience that feeling.
nice day!
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
I got married just recently and you know, the feeling was really amazing! It's because I married the man that I really love. We've been bf/gf for 6 years and many people rejoiced with us that we finally tied the knot! I'm sure that you'll feel the same way on your wedding day. But make sure that you'll marry the man that your heart really loves because if not, no matter how hard you tried to be excited, you will never feel it. And that's good knowing that you're praying for that guy, you will never be taken for granted. God bless!
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
i am in a complicated relationship now, i am just about your age but unlike you i am not ready yet to get married. i am not economically stable so i think i have no thoughts of settling yet. but someday after i get a stable job i would settle. i have always dreamed of having a happy family and like you i want to experience the feeling of joy of getting married. wedding preparations is always fun and i can feel the excitement with my other cousins getting married and aunts celebrating their anniversaries. with that i wanted to feel the excitement but this time me as the bride. the feeling of you are the most beautiful existing woman on earth because you'r gonna marry the man you have been praying for. so for now because i am not ready yet but good for you because you are ready. now all we need to do is just continue to pray that God bless us with the right man to love but i believe that God truly love us that He won't be giving us the wrong person to settle with for the rest of our lives.
@sandeep62pandey (1)
• India
16 Sep 11
I truly agree with you it is very difficult to find a guy who loves you and loves god too. But what i think is you should not find a guy that guy is somewhere there and when god has send you on earth he must have have send that guy too.So dont wait for that wait for that guy he will automatically come and fill your life with pleasure and happiness and my advice to every single is that dont get married early fall in love be with guy or girl and then think for that.i ask everyone who is in love and who want a loved one in their life is love only thing by which your all needs are satisfied?