Why do people get frustrated?
By habib999
@habib999 (16)
United States
September 15, 2011 12:47pm CST
Hi Guys,
I've got this little problem that occurs each time I am in a relationship, or at least when I think I am in a relationship. I get 'frustrated' about little, not important things.
Maybe Frustrated isn't a good word to describe exactly the feelings I get, but it is the best what I could find in the English language. Anyway, I think I should explain in detail: it seams that every time I am in a relationship I start to compare my life with the life of my girlfriend. Then I see the differences and start to focus on them that leads me to start thinking that I am worse than she is. Because she can do and does things I cannot or just don't do.
Currently I feel that way when thinking of things like: her having a drivers licence and me not, her way of cooking or her way of furnishing her appartment.
This is just silly, stupid and immature. Especiallythat I do not feel this way with others . Actually in general other social situations I feel really good and confident, more than she nor anyone I met.I know what I am good in, where I come from and where I am going to. So why do I feel this way now?!
1 response
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
15 Sep 11
A relationship is not as difficult as we think. I always fail in relationships or the other person does. I have learned that it is important for someone to be able to be alone and content with who they are with relying on a relationship. I am always in bad relationships that start out great and then after getting to know each other one of us always mess it up. I find that the bad ones are making me a better person and leading me towards the best relationship ever. I finally took time off to be alone and now i am the happiest i have ever been.