Who's the B*tch?

I think there is no reason for you to blame your self because you just give your trust to your boyfriend. I think the persons that can be blame in this situation is the girl and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend because he never stop his self to flirt in that girl and he also don't tell you the truth,you give your trust to him but he never give it importance.. The girl because he flirt in you boyfriend even she know that he already have a girlfriend.

blamed the two of them...nothing will happen if they don't both want it and if he really loves you then he will not do it!!!you deserve to be happy and you do not deserve such kind of guy! there's a lot of fishes in the ocean don't be blinded by your love for him because he doesn't deserve it...he doesn't deserve a wonderful woman like you so be proud in front of him...

Both of them should be blamed. It takes two to tango. And you shouldn't be blamed. You have done nothing except from letting your boyfriend attend the said reunion. And it's not wrong. Not letting him attend the reunion is kinda wrong because it's his right to attend it anyway. shadow41

Blame them both. Its not only the girl's fault that she flirted, but the guy as well because he entertained the flirt.Then the guy did not tell you.. ok, so there is something in there already. The guy has plans of NOT telling me at all then. Break up with him and move on is the answer.

If this story is true it's breakup right now dear, the girl shouldn't even think in staying with him. Many girls blame the girls but that is just stupid, this kind of girl are clearly sl*ts so there's nothing we can do really but if we see we can break their head off if we are there, now the blame must be always in the guy because it's him who owe us respect. He is the one in a relationship, the sl*ts end up alone at old age.

Sorry i am cannot help u.. :(

Definitely u can't be blamed by their short rendezvous. Men are by nature polygamous as they say and most of them are adventurous. Well, part of it can be blamed to your bf because if he really loves you he won't do such thing.In the other hand, the girl who flirted I found her too pathetic as a one night stand girl. But it would be different if they continue building a relationship behind your back. It is said that you better love the second person in our life because for sure you don't love your first lover knowing that you cheated. :)

Well that sounds like a recipe for a disaster. Looks like you should find a new boyfriend cause that is not usually a one time deal... good luck! I don't think I would blame anyone... whats the point really? What would be important to me would be to learn from the relationship and move on...

Both are wrong. But the b*tch-ier is the b*stard. The boyfriend shouldn't have flirted with the other girl if he really loves his girlfriend, right? And, maybe chatting with the girl is fine (though it can make the girlfriend jealous still). But not the other stuffs that he did. They aren't what a good boyfriend should have done in a certain situation.

i guess both are to be blame on that situation,first the girl since she flirted on your boyfriend..secondly your boyfriend did entertain and flirt back,if he really loves you then he shouldn't entertain that girl,your boyfriend didn't think about you and make his own moves knowing that you would be hurt to know it..and 3rd he didn't tell you the truth..i guess you must move on and find for someone who is worth your love,,