Do you agree with this ?
By karubod
@karubod (603)
India
September 16, 2011 12:30pm CST
Loving someone doesn't mean that he/she is the best, but it's believing that the person you love is the best......!
please share your honest thoughts and experiences.
5 responses
@emjay86 (640)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Who really is best for us we never know. Somehow, in a relationship. Anyone can be the "best one". It is upon the couple to make things work and somehow when the relationship goes from good to better to best. People see that and they appreciate that. And the couple, without realizing it, is considered a bets pair. :)
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
the concept of idealism varies from person to person, you may prefer taller guys some prefer smaller guys, skin color, weight, cute or handsome, you know the rest. I think that it's like as you said, believing that the person you love is the best and there is no one to top that feeling you have for him/her. True love isn't simply a physical attraction, it's like sharing your 5 senses to that special someone where you can feel what each other feel, you must accompany each other not only physically but emotionally too.
Good luck with your love life :)
@granite_butterfly (448)
• Canada
16 Sep 11
We are not perfect and neither is love. Love is based on trust, assurance and intimacy. If you love someone and have strengthened these attributes, your partner doesn't have to be the "best" but they are already the best for you. Let love evolve itself and build on it. Tricky discussion.
@karubod (603)
• India
16 Sep 11
Yeah it's a kind of tricky situation in life, i feel bad when people have misconception about love, misjudge their partners and end up in a disastrous relationships..... We often have a picture of so called 'perfect' people and preset goals in our mind, some times we even overestimate over-selves, while we choose a partner. Such kind of attitude takes away the essence of true love i think.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
17 Sep 11
When you are in love with somebody, all that persons faults are swept under the carpet and you see only the good things about that person. That is why it is said that love is blind.Other people who are not emotionally involved will be able to see the true character of that person whom you love but even if they try to convince you it will be of no use because you will be completely biased in favour of your lover.Love is an emotion of the heart and not of the head because the head is ruled by the intellect and if you start using your head,ie brains then you will soon discover that the one you love really has feet of clay and very soon your love will be replaced with disgust for that person.Human love is frail and fickle and does not last long.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
When loving someone you will see that person for you to be the best. Nothing more nothing less. The person not should be perfect but when you look at that person feels like the best person and the entire world and there is no one in this world could ever be the same.
