how to convince my boy it is time to move
By jazzyrae
@jazzyrae (1745)
United States
September 16, 2011 7:20pm CST
me and my boyfriend both work full time. there is a house off the main road for rent, we currently live at his mom's 2 bedroom 1 bathroom house.......the spare room is completley cluttered with his mom's stuff so we are sleeping on couch's in the livingroom. which has been fine but now his mom's boyfriend has visitation every other weekend with his 2 son's so all four of us in a living room.....:/ which leaves me and my boy sleeping in chair's or on the floor beacause there is no room for a bed in the house. Im not trying to be rude i love his mom but there is no room for us!!! would it be wrong if i gave him an ultimatum. The reason he dose not like the rent house in town is it is by a busy road i could carless if the house was in the middle of the road what do you guys think
4 responses
@jodylee (946)
• United States
17 Sep 11
I say if you are not happy then it is time to move on for sure. But, perhaps that is not the right place for you and your beau... are there other rentals that are in your budget in the area?
@soulist (2985)
• United States
18 Sep 11
I would definitely talk to him about moving. Maybe not into that specific house if he objects to it, but maybe start looking for a place both of you would like. That is what my boyfriend and I did. We just looked around until we found one in a place we both were very happy with. Be honest with him and tell him the living situation is not working out. You love him but it's time to get a place of your own and really start a good life together.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
18 Sep 11
I think if you want to move, try to find a house with affordable downpayment and try to find a loan from a bank to pay the house. i always think that renting a house is a last resort because rent a house mean your money goes away every month and at the end you don't own anything, but if you pay a mortage by the end you will have a house.
