surfing

Hmmm that's not a bad idea, or at least a link to a page that does that. It would make it easier to know who to be friends with based on who is active, and who you have things in common (like location, culture religion ect.) with.

A counter that show how many people online! - I think that is a great idea! So we may know when the time that most myLot members go online. More online members, more chance we get for obtaining responses in our discussions. :D But I can't see the relation between that and the easiness to getting in touch. In m opinion, a complete list about "which friends are online" would be more convenient to get in touch easily with them. :D