Are you a Great Friend??

I may say that one can be a great friend in any way but for me you can be the one if you can keep SECRETS no matter what. I can say that I have lot of friends in this wonderful world but I can't find a real and great friend except GOD. One time I thought I found one but then later on she betrayed me, telling bad about me and I hate it when someone did that to me. Too sad 'cause she became my sister-in-law. :( Once the TRUST is broken I think there will be a hard time putting it back again. The scars still remain and often sensitive for sometime.

I am a great friend the best you can have. I always keep my promises and even do more. I leave my kids alone and you can call me in the middle of the night. And if you knock on my door I will open. The only problem is I never met anyone who is investing so much in a friendship as I do. I gave up many nightrest for friend even with kids, a job and a bad health but people find that normal. They never offered to do something back for me. So the question is: if you are a great friend.. do you attract real friends or just abusers? All the people I helped/my friends say I am a great friend but they also admit that they are not able to do the same back for me. Some really stabbed me in the back in every way and abused me in many ways. As I asked them later if I deserved that they all say I did not. But it seems for some people it's just easy to abuse someone good. For me it means I won't do that to anyone anymore unless he is doing the same for me and he has to prove that first.

I can`t say I am a good friend, sometimes i have do mistake in my friend, sometime i make lie for the sake of my friend, but its still a lie and is a sin. So i never say my self Im a good friend of mine. Just any one can say that if you a nice friend or not.

There is never a specific criteria for one to make a great friends. For me only our friends could tell us how great we are. All of us is unique so we have different qualities that other people may like or may not. My advice is that, just be who you are. We can never be a perfect friend, but a great one, who knows?

From your description i think you have never got good friends in your life.The meaning of friendship can't be explained, its a feeling which we can feel only if we are a part of great friendship. There is nothing beyond friendship in this world.. I believe so.. And I'm proud to say that i've got great friends in my life.... :):)

well, friends.. sometimes they will just appear if they have problems. That's what friends are. Well, but good friends will not leave you behind even if you want to be alone. For me, that's a great friend. Hopefully you could find him/her. However, you must always keep in mind that the people around you are not gonna care for you forever. There would always be the time that they could make you upset. However, you should always treasure those who are real and keeping in touch with you no matter what. They may not be considered as great friends, but they care to be one of your great friends.

I don't know if I'm a great friend, they are only the ones who can say what friend I'am to them. For me great friends are those really true to their selves, friends who are always here and helps you in times of need. They are here not only in good times but also in bad times. They don't consider your negative attitudes, they tell the truth.

friends are such great and special gifts who we should all cherish. It's too harsh to be alone and we need friends who we can share our emotions with. It isn't always about helping each other about, for me it's also about who makes you laugh, who shares their troubles with you and who makes your world go round. Me and my friends always laugh at a good joke, we always reflect on our memories together and we'll laugh at all the funny times. Some friends aren't perfect and so are we, but as friends, we can always conquer those imperfections.

bond027 Friendship doesn't requires proof In my opinion a friend is that with whom you feel happy,comfort level is at its height , there would be no formalities. There is no such parameter for measuring friendship It just comes from inside. Its generally a feeling which decides who should be friend or who should be not. But this is also true that"a friend in need is a friend indeed" this is the only way you can measure your friendship. If you want to measure your friendship then just call him when you are in need if he comes then he is your true friend o\w not. This is true and verified by me.