now i knew, why she leave me.

Hi. Sounds like it's time for re-evaluation on your end. :-) Are you happy with your job--REALLY happy? Does it have any kind of a future to it or is there anything you can do to make that future better? Can you learn a new skill, any opportunities for advancement, etc.? When was the last time you really looked at your wardrobe? If it does need work, don't feel that you have to spend a bundle---just look for a good sale. Are there other jobs out there that would make you happier? I know the job situation is precarious at best right now but there are some things you can do to improve on yourself. Just keep looking for ways to improve yourself. Some will take time and real diligence and others can be solved a lot more rapidly. If you need to, write the changes you'd like to improve, how long it may take to get there, and anticipate the outcome. Some are easy and some results may surprise you. Best of luck!

Its true buddy.Now a days girls are looking for better life.If you ensure that then you will get girl friend.But all girls are not like this.Many of girls love you only for you,not for your job or money.Its good that she left you.You should search a good lady who is going to love you and do not leave you only for better life.

I am sorry to hear that, but look at it this way, so you love the girl even though its your pocket that she likes, sorry for the "P A K B oo M" (its a punch my friend) I have to wake you UP!

Now a days not only girls but lots of man too are trying to find a woman who are financially stable.. well who doesnt wanna have a better life? I feel sorry for what she did but you must move on.... she made her own choice so try to respect and accept it without no hard feelings... and of course everybody deserves someone better.. im sure your going to find someone to who will love you for who you are :)

hi there henki! hmm i'm sorry to hear that. but yeah really it is true. more women today look for men who can really support them financially. well some say we can't eat love so i think there are more who really look at a man's wallet rather than the heart. i am sorry for the terms but don't get me wrong but really it is a fact that a man could look more handsome if he has lots of money. it is a factor nowadays since a lot of us are feeling the crisis. yes whichever country these women belong and that is practically thinking. do you still love her? do you have any hard feelings for leaving you? after hearing it from your ex girlfriends brother what did you feel? are you happy with your job now? are you gonna stay in that job for the rest of your life? i hope you find the answers to this questions. Godbless you. do pray always!:)

Maybe she is not worth it... You can find better girls than your ex-girlfriend...

Hi, henkiprananda. It is very wrong that she left you because you don't have the money that will make her satisfied with being with you. That should not be the main reason that she keeps you close to her in your relationship together. If you have a job, then at least you have one. There are some men that are just too lazy to go out there and get a job. They would rather live off of their lady. That is a shame! Nowadays a female seeks a man that is financially stable and secure in life. I just feel that as long as you are trying to be a responsible and mature man then she don't need to do anymore than you need to. If this girl is going to love you for you, then she should accept you for who you are, regardless of how much of money that you have.

here in our earth have a lot of reason.we live in reasonable place. yes she have reason why she left you. its a good decision you must respect of her because its for also your good sake. yes both of you must sacrifice even you love each other, but the situation she look for the better life doesn`t find in you

I understand it makes you sad she just wants you if you find a better job. I assume there is nothing wrong with your job but with your income? Everybody wants a better life, we all are looking for that. Most of us don't get it. If she has someone else because he is more able to take care of her as you can, so be it. Personal it would not call that love. Do you want such a person as your gf or wife? How will future look like? What if you have that better job? Will she be satisfied or ask for more and more? I think it's a pity you both did not talk about it before. Personally I would not like a bf/husband that is too lazy to work but if he has a job, is doing his best, willing to share and loves me it would be enough for me. There are many ways to have a good life and in the end it's important too to have someone who really loves you.

that does sound very sad so do you want her back? are you going to try to get her back? i am torn between what to say here part of me says if she really loved you and truely cared about you it would not have mattered what you did as a job or how much money you have but then again the other part of me understands what she is saying about wanting a better life i know money is not everything but in order to have even a decent life you need to have money i guess it depends on what kind of life she had with you if it was a decent life then i think you should move on to someone better she was just being greedy but if the two of you were struggling with money and she was not happy then i cant really blame her just be cautious that sometimes a girl will give an excuse like that or that will just be half of the reason she left there may have been a list of reasons

boy money is not all. do have nice ways? the true of a matter of fact is that you cant pay pay the bills base on feels. it she had really like the would encouarge you to study for a better paying job. if you have nice ways forget about the girl that does n ot like an d find someone how would support you and encourage you to study to improve on your present situation let the girl go to hell! you do not judge people by the way they look and how they are dress! this is modern times. grow up