saying goodbye. . .
By bessyjanmayi
@bessyjanmayi (278)
Philippines
September 17, 2011 10:44am CST
Is it hard to say goodbye right? Well, it is even painful to hear a goodbye from the person you loved most. It breaks my heart if somebody will say goodbye to me, it is just okay if he/say will say goodbye but he/she will be back but it is very hard if you would know that he/she will not be back anymore. All we can do is just to reminisce the memories we had on that person. I know it is really hard but we can't do nothing. We can't hold them.
11 responses
@yskaps (233)
• India
18 Sep 11
yaaa... itz really hard to say goodbye to our loved ones.. It is so sad to face such a situation. But we can't do anything when its the time to leave our loved ones we have to... the only hope when we are leaving is somewhere..somehow we can meet them.........
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
me i never say goodbye, because im so afraid to say this. I feel have something happen when I saying this. people said if you got breakup and need to move on. the last word that can you say them is hello, because we can`t never know`s it they will back again to you. if you love him let him free.
@poniface1983 (132)
• India
18 Sep 11
Always saying goodbye to loved ones is difficult, its an emotions we have no control on it, we cant do anything, and any person will have to leave at one point in time. after all, life itself is not permanent know..
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I agree with you. Saying goodbye is really sad, to the point that it could be heartbreaking especially if you mean goodbye to the person you are loving the most. But life is just like that we can't force anyone to stay with us, nothing is permanent. We must be thankful that our path's crossed and somehow we couldnt forget once they become part of our life.
@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Sep 11
I don't care much for the word. I like 'see ya soon' or something like that. Aloha maybe. If you know you probably won't see the person again for quite a while it is all the more sad. No, we can't do much. Thank goodness for email and IM chats online to help keep people close as possible.
@MandaLee (3760)
• United States
17 Sep 11
Saying goodbye is never easy. Goodbye seems so final. As a Christian, I find such comfort and peace in knowing that if my loved ones know Christ as their Savior, they are with Him in Heaven. Goodbye is only for a while. I will see my loved ones in Heaven one day.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
It is sometimes hard to say goodbye especially if you don't want the person to leave. Once you've lived with the person for almost the rest of your life, it will be hard for you to let go of her. The only times that I find it easy to say goodbye is when I really don't have that deep of a connection with the person.
@bachyyy (195)
• Bulgaria
17 Sep 11
Yeah, it is very hard to say good buy to someone you love..these summer i had to say good buy to one of my best friends..she went to live and to study in New York..It was one of the most painful things that i have ever done.I know her for my entire life and now when she is not here there is an empty space..I know that it is better for her to live there because of the opportunities that New York offers,but she just miss me.I couldn`t hold her..I was scared of the change,maybe because i don`t like changes,but sometimes they are good thing..I don`t know.Whaat I know now it`s that when you lose somethng or in my case someone you don`t know what you win..
@erez98 (166)
• Israel
17 Sep 11
it depends if it is a goodbye between lovers who separates or just goodbye between family or friends.
you have to put in mind that in the second case you can always see them here and there or see them via internet.
the sorrow will fade slowly slowly because that is life.....