Do you think it is true?

@youless (112586)
Guangzhou, China
September 17, 2011 6:59pm CST
I have heard that people say men will have no worries before marriage, but lots of worries after that. On the contrary, women keep worried before married and they feel released after it. Do you think it is true? In my opinion, it is true that I had many worries before marriage. However, I still have many worries after that. These worries come from the marriage, life, work and child.
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@celticeagle (168261)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Sep 11
No, I don't believe this is true. If a man is smart he will worry whether the woman he asks will say yea. There are always things to worry about. And women have even different things to worry about as well. I think it is normal to worry and wonder how things will go before and after marriage.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
You are quite right.
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@celticeagle (168261)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Sep 11
Men do worry, just about different things.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Men have heavier pressure because they have to be responsible for their families.
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• United States
18 Sep 11
I think it was assumed that women Had to worry about getting a man to marry. They Had to be pretty or they may never marry. And they Had to be young. On the other hand,guys were carefree until they they marry. once they marry , they had to worry about work and providing for his family. But that was then. Now many are worried , regardless of if they are married or not.
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• United States
18 Sep 11
Yes , before , during and After marriage.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Men and women's worries can be quite different.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Sep 11
That is definitely not true in my case. I am a woman and I worried before marriage and still do all of it afterwards.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Me, too.
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• United States
18 Sep 11
I think both in general worry a great deal but it is the women who are a bit more expressive at times. But yes marriage itself takes the both of them to share all the worries and wonderful happenings that come along with it.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Yes, the couples shall share everything.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Well it depends everyone guy is different that is just someones opinion.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Yes, it is.
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• United States
18 Sep 11
of course guys worry about marriage. Maybe not as much as females but they do. Right before i got married, it was the fact on worried about getting everything together, the marriage license, the rings, where we were going to have it at etc. Although i got married in jamaica to a jamaican, its a little difficult. Since im so far away right now, I know hes worried about me being with another man, or im worried about him being with another female. But it all depends on who the guy is and how they are i guess. not every guy is the same in that matter.
@edbuex (169)
• Uganda
18 Sep 11
though am not yet..to me... i hope that if the right time comes for the banana plant reaches to be eaten is always put down for food....so too is we human beings if the right time for marriages comes every one will get who he she qualifies for on conditions;;1.how one conducts him her self,2.behaviors all got when in courtship and among others...if these are conducted well here one gets who he she deserves to be with without worries for the rest of his her life so feel conferable because you have already decided in all millions of men,,feel certified with each n every thing that might be bringing worries to you n just make correction to some problems that come n go then enjoy the time you guyz have on this world.... bye thank you
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Thanks for your response.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
20 Sep 11
personally, i didn't worry about things like that when i get into married life. and now i am worried about everything. so i believe and i will always tell this to my children to be perfectly prepared before getting into married life.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Sep 11
It is easy to say than done.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
18 Sep 11
You are always going to be worried about something, getting merried doesnt mean that you are going to be worry-free, it just might give a bit more things to worry about. dosnt meanthat they are very bad things, some can be light things but you need to be worried. It is just how life is.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Sep 11
Yes, life is not easy.
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I've seen other people get married and turn out miserable after it. You should be ready when you're going to get married because it requires commitment. You have to have a fixed decision on this matter or you'll regret it in the future.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Yes, getting married needs to have a good consideration.
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Not really consideration, you need more than that. Marriage is something we should take seriously.
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Does certainly seem that way with a lot of people. Then again, there are many women who have gotten married and have been driven on the verge of a slight breakdown. It is just one of those things that people tend to rush into a lot now more than ever before they are completely ready. Before they are completely and utterly committed to the act of marriage. I think that the many things that come with marriage are what causes a lot of the worries. There are just a lot of times where people don't think things completely and utterly through. There are worries potential before, during, and heaven forbid, after marriage. That is just the nature sometimes and it can be great, but it can also be many people's gravest mistake.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
I think sometimes the worries become more since there are two people.
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
18 Sep 11
We can not judge the sentence is right or false.To some people,the situation is true,to other people,the situation is not true.So we can not judge the sentence,and we should consider the sentence as reference
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Alright.
• China
18 Sep 11
No matter whether men or women ,whether before marriage or after that,people who have sense of responsibility and enterprising spirit always have so many things to worry about.As opposed to it,some people treat everything with indifference.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Finally I find out the reason. Perhaps the responsibilities give us the pressure and worries.
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• China
19 Sep 11
You are certainly an industrious person besides.
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 11
Dont know the reason but i think its 100% true to my observation.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Sep 11
There can be various kinds of reasons
@0CoOlGuY0 (103)
• Portugal
18 Sep 11
I don't think it's true, I KNOW IT!!!! Most of the married couples i know either break up or stay together because of their kids and live their lives always arguing!!!
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Sep 11
The life has up and down time.
@GardenGerty (160950)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Honestly, I think most people, men and women have worries before and after marriage, it is just human nature. No one is totally care free.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
You are right.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
18 Sep 11
In my case, I felt more worried before marriage, but not after my getting married. I feel life more enjoyable after I got married because I have someone to take good care of, to think about, someone important in my life. So I feel more relaxed compared with my bachelor's life in the past. Anyway, everyone has a different case regarding to it. Take care, youless.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
You are a lucky person
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
18 Sep 11
Worries do not depend upon situations or circumstances.They are unpredictable and could come at any stage of the life.Everyone has worries whether it is amn,woman or child,whether a bachelor, spinster, married man or married woman.There are hundreds of things and hundreds of causes for worries to take place and are totally unavoidable.One should however learn how to tackle worries in a calm, clear and sane manner and not panic.the more you worry the more it will affect your bodily and mental health.When worries come one should sit calmly and introspect and try to find out what made them come in the first place.After identifying the cause one should go about trying to find a solution and when it is found,try to solve the problem in whatever manner possible.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Probably this is the good explanation.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
18 Sep 11
If you married a good man.there were less worry.if not you will feel unsafe and more worries.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Even though, the worries can still come from many aspects.
@vikku2001 (258)
• India
18 Sep 11
Hello youless Well I think it is very much true in the case of men.As after marriage they have much more responsibility while before marriage they are usually careless.But after marriage they have to take care of their wife.In opposite it is not fixed that her worries will increase or decrease.Its totally depend on her nature to face new things.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
The men not only take care of their wives, but also their children.
@shuuen (39)
• Japan
18 Sep 11
Well, men and women are truly opposites in the aspect of marriage, because women want stability in their life, both financially and emotionally, which they think can be solved by marriage. Men on the other hand are more free-spirited and are less prone to settling down at a younger age. They want to try many things in life, and they believe that marriage will hinder them due to the responsibilities they have to face.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Sep 11
Perhaps it is a way for a boy to be a man.