What will you do if you are fallen in love with a married man?

@kearkear (963)
Davao, Philippines
September 18, 2011 12:55am CST
For me if I would be in the shoes of that girl who fell in love and she knows lately that the guy was married, I rather stop this stupidity. I will not allow myself being hurt more and could destroy a family.
8 responses
@Timeout (419)
18 Sep 11
If I fell in love with a married man I would just forget him, they are plenty of hot boys out there, and a man who doesn't respect his wife really doesn't worth it. If a man cheats on his wife, even if it's with me, I would never ever trust him. And I think that girls that don't care to be in that situation, being JUST the secret lover of a married man, they don't love themselves very much. People deserve more than just being "the second" forever.
@kearkear (963)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 11
You got it! It's so clear as crystal ice. Lots of hot boys out there that are single,free and no commitment with others. If a man cheats his wife,don't expect he would not do it again.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
18 Sep 11
I think falling in love with a married man/woman needs to be avoided. It there is an attraction one needs to use discipline and stop it from going further. Too many people can get hurt if the person doesn't have self-control
@kearkear (963)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 11
Yeah, I do agree it's a matter of self-discipline and self-control. When you like someone, see to it that there is no wrong of loving her/him. Many will be affected if you continue and pursuing your relationship, knowing that, that someone have a family.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
20 Sep 11
First, I will not try to fall to a married man. But let us say, worst case scenario, I already fell in love, I will try to forget my feelings. It is very difficult but I will try. It is not right to fall to a married man. And I don't want to ruin a family.
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
If i found out that the man I love is married I will stop from seeing him or communicating with him because I don't want to destroy his family and i don't want to get hurt more and more because in the end I know he will stay with his family and i will be left alone. .
• India
27 Sep 11
people who fall in love at first site will love a married man, then they realize that they have made a mistake. so we need to make our move gradually and make our life more sensible with right person.
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
If that man can do that stupid thing to his wife, that he marries and vows to be with her in the rest of his life, there is no doubt that he can also do it to you. So, never ever fall in love with a married man.
• United States
19 Sep 11
No I would not allow myself to entertain the thought of being with a married man and or even the remote possibility of falling in love with him. I would treat my partner as number one always and certainly expect to be treated as his number one as well. Sadly one engaging in the life of a married man, is setting oneself for disappointment.
@edbuex (169)
• Uganda
19 Sep 11
glad you are not a lady but if you were a lady you would be working harder to make sure that the family is broken and he remarries you as anew house wife ...n way there those hu can do it that way u r not wrong friend