when you have in a relationship. why jealous is always there?

Wow i know how you feel. I was the super jealous girl friend too. But somehow,my ex loved me being jealous. He just said it made him feel happy when I became jealous I know it's weird. Anyway I thing is, I know I was jealous coz I was so deeply in love with him. That is the only thing I can say and I don't think it is a really bad thing to be jealous. But there is a limit yeah. But, I also don't know how to get rid of this habit. I just think it is human nature and depends on your personality.

You will never have the control in that type of feeling. There will be times when you would just feel that other women are try to take him from you. Perhaps you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. There are times when men tend to like attention from other women and they can't help liking the attention at all, the problem is that him creating these bonds would soon hurt you and your relationship with him. Further, if you think that you trust him, you wouldn't feel this way at all. There isn't such a thing as full trust with someone, there will be slight distrust. Just let him know how it feels and don't nag him about these things. Just tell him straight. If you could get to know these women with him by your side, that would be great because it would let them know that he's already hand's off. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

Hi there Myn3wlif3! I think it is part of loving someone because you will always be afraid to lose the person that you love. It is hard to control to the extent that some people can commit crimes because of jealousy. I think the best thing to do is to deepen the foundation of your relationship, be sure that you let him feel how much you love him and just trust him. At least, he knows that if ever he cheats on you, it will be his loss and not yours.

Try to think you are the best, and jealous is normal feeling, and find out the root causes for the jealousy, for example, if you feel jealous because of his nature, character or handsome, appreciate it, if you feel he is having what is not with you, you will start jealous, so try to appreciate the good things in him and think you are the best among the others..hope this will help you.

I think you don't feel that secured. I felt the same way with my first boy friend. I always feel jealous though I know it is not right at all. Then when I'm already in another relationship, I don't feel jealous anymore. Yes there is ab bit of jealousy but that seldom happens. I found out that I feel secured because he gave me such security and also we trust each other.

i guess jealousy is a normal feeling with every person. . .well, if you really trust your boyfriend then good for you. .but you cant control being jealous if there is something to be jealous about. . Good luck

Has jealousy always have to do with trust? I don't think so. You can also be jealous because you like to be the only one to get his attention. Ask yourself why you feel jealous, what you are afraid of. Is there a reason why you are jealous or why you can't trust him? Does he give you a reason (by his behaviour) not to trust him or have you had bad life experiences if it comes to that? Write down how you feel, what you can handle, if it's reasonable or just in your mind. Remember that if nothing is going on you can make things only worser by feeding those feelings. BTW there is not always jealousy in a relationship and also a bit of jealousy is not bad at all. It also can be a sign for your partner that you still care about him.

Humans are jealous creatures. Jealousy has to be understood, managed and controlled. No one is absent of jealousy.