Do you still feel pain in your heart from a past relationship?

I think that for you to completely get over with a person you used to love, one should have given you all the heartaches that you could not handle. I do not know what is the cause of your break up, but most likely, you still loved him when you filed for divorce.

That is the trouble with divorcing so hasty. You still love the person and if he goes and marries another, you cannot ask him to beak up his marriage. And now you are feeling regret because you figure that if things had been different, if they had worked out, you would still be married. If he had cheated on you, and if now he is no longer cheating on his new love, you may be confused as if things had worked out, he might not cheat on you. I am assuming that is one of the reasons. The trouble is that he might have hurt you badly because you are you and yet not do that to the other person. Now if he were still single, and you wanted to get back together, he would have to prove himself to you that he no longer does the things to you.

That is painful..But what is wrong why you got divorce or separated..?It is a waste,because after all you marriage,you are separated,and that is painful,even i am not yet married,but i know how feels..What is the problems with the boy with you,,,,and i wish that you just fix it the problems so there is no divorce,,but it is done already...nothing can do but pain...but you will let it go the pain just to forget,or not remember the person...the more you remember him the more pain you will feel because of the past experience..but just to think positive on your mind...sad...