Some people can't stand seeing other people happy

Do not have cared, as long as people like that do not things that harm us for real. That is human nature does not likr if it someone else happy. But the good person is a man who can control himself and not doing things that harm others.

I have a friend who is like this, and it literally gets to the point where I just can't bare to talk to him anymore because he just tries to dampen everything good that I tell him about my life. When I told him that I was getting married, the only thing that he could say was that I wouldn't be able to have fun anymore or go out with other people. When I told him I wanted to start trying for a baby he told me that it would be the end of my life and that I would regret it. I honestly cannot do anything without him trying to bring me down from the happiness that I should truly feel around those times of my life.

Actually I thought that these kind of people only exist in dramatic movie. But we had experienced being ruined by people who are envious and very much insecure with them selves. Instead of being happy on the success that we had, they did spread false issues on my family. It came to the point that they harassed my mother and throw bad words and spit towards her. We didn't have enemies in our neighbors and my mother is very friendly. One day they just turned into scary people who are very desperate to ruined our lives, that's the time my mother began to fight with them and they stopped. We conclude that they became envious when my father got a job abroad and we were able to renovate our house from a little house in two storey house. We were also able to got to private school and wear good dresses.

I think that is a sign of them being miserable themselves for sure. There are a lot of people who tend to have had a bad time for whatever reason. There are a lot of people who really are going to take people as many people on their ride of misery. After all, if they can't be happy, then why should anyone else be happy? That is really something that is unfair but rather true. Hopefully these people realize what they are doing and realize that if they expand a fraction of the energy that they do making others miserable, they can put their lives back on track. Hopefully they come to that realization. Hopefully they get their lives on track. For the sake of them and for everyone else to say the very least. Hopefully they can let go of that bitterness.

I guess some people feel kinda jealous when someone else around them are happy, knowing that they don't share or have the same happiness. So just to make themselves feel better, they try to take out their jealousy and loathing towards the person who has that happiness just so that they can make themselves feel better. How would you feel if you're poor and your friend was rich and happy? A sad idea but differences like this can make other people do drastic things.

You are right eynjel I also bear this loss people always find out the persons who are happy and start ruin their happiness.. In our family all three brothers are staying together my husband and two brother and all are happy one day a man tell something about my dever to my husband and when husband return back from market they start annoying on my dever (husbands's brother) and tell all this thing them my dever said ohhh brother I not do this and I cant do anything without asking you why you trust on others and said they feeling jealous because we are still staying together..My marriage life completed 15 years and our all family are joined family.. I also dont know why people not pay attention on their own job and why do the interfere in others life..

I have come across alot of people who are like this and to me its mainly because they are jealous of your happiness or good fortune. These types of people I like to stay away from. If they are in my company though I have learned to keep my good happiness and good fortune to myself. These people are the type that will never find happiness because they are so unhappy that they could never turn it around for themselves. It is a shame that people can't just be happy for someone else. I'm always very happy for family and friends who are happy or something good has happened for them. If more people were like this it would be a better world.

Because if people like these don't exist then life would be boring. We won't know what happiness feels because we don't know how sadness feels. We won't feel content if we don't know how it feels to be frustrated. We won't know how to win and how happy it is to win, if we haven't failed and lost. All these are essential in our lives. People like them exist to teach us life lessons, to make us stronger

I think they have a lot of hatred in them and that's why they can't withstand the success of others and will do anything to spoil it.I have seen situations where one will hinder another person's appointment to a job for unknown reasons.

Hi eynjel ! How are you ? What I feel is that these people have a psychological problem . They did not find happiness for them and so seeing others happy the devil in them instigates them to spoil others happiness . They get an inhuman pleasure in it . I meet such people often and try to avoid them . They make our lives hell with no gain on their part . Pray that God helps them to get rid of the Satan in them .

They ruin others happiness because their life is may be miserable and wish they could be happy as others

Maybe those people have innate attitude of crab mentality. I dont why it makes them happy ruining someones life. Do they have behavioral disorder or something. Won't they be contented with what they have? Will everyone just be happy with the present life they have. I hope so.