My kiddies have become naughty than they were!!!

@sjvg1976 (41290)
Delhi, India
September 19, 2011 12:26am CST
Hello MYLOTTERS, As you all know i have twin children.It was really great hard work we did to raise them up and now they are 3 years old.When they were small we thought that their mischeifs will be reduced once they will start going to school but now unlike my expectation they are more naughty then before. It looks as if teachers there in school give them training to perform mischeifs.Hope one day they will be good children and give us some peace but its really great to see them rasing up.
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• United States
19 Sep 11
I don't think that at three years old they can be called naughty. I think it is more like curious. You will be continually molding them to better behavior patterns as they get older. We do have to correct them at an early age but certainly doing so where we are tactful as to explaining the differences with right and or wrong. Though it can be so cute at times to see them being so curious but it is our responsibility to assure they understand the differences.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 11
Wow, i am really amazed at how you are able to handle everything by yourself. It is good that time passes very fast and now you are at free from your headache of taking care little children. Just hope i can get a good blessing like you, too...
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 11
Hardworking, i do discovered that my son is more curious since he went to school now. I am happy that you had posted here some good tips for parents. I am always trying my best to explain to my son, to let him know what is right or wrong attitude. Just hope he able to understand them well...
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• United States
20 Sep 11
Oh yes myfb with your wonderful mothering your son will definitely learn right from wrong. They do not know they are doing wrong unless mommy says it wrong and consistency is the key. At 3 years old as sv says, I don't consider that naughty, they really don't know right from wrong yet. It is the job of the parent to explain in astute ways as to now open even further curiosity. Both of mine, being 2 years apart were so sneaky and thankfully being a single parent, I did show them right from wrong and never once had to go to school about any form of complaints. A true blessing.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 11
Hi Svjg, i think it is usual in the growing up process that children tends to be very curious and always interested to get to know many things. I saw my son started to change a lot since he went to school. When he is back at home, he is asking a lot of interesting and funny questions. Sometimes, it makes me no idea what answer to give to him.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 11
Hello Myfb, My kids are going to play school at present and sing rhyms at home when they come back from school and hope they will be curious like your son when they will grow up.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 11
That sounds very interesting. I am sure when your kids are in the kindy stage, they will start to be as curious as other kids and my son as well. That's how they learn things in their daily life. Have a nice day...
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
26 Sep 11
I am waiting for those days when i will teach them mathematics in which i am very good. Hope soon they will be as curious as other children once they will grow up.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
Twins - Who will discipline them?
Well dear, foolishness is bound in the heart of a child so expect naughtiness in them as they grow older. But it is up for us parents to teach and discipline them so that they could be the good children we want them to be. Of course as they grow old they don't just stay home so they get exposed to various kind of people and circumstances and from them they either learn bad or good things. Of course the school can't be hold accountable for our children's behavior. They have limited authority over our children. It is the parents who should teach them and always remember that when we train up the child and teach them what is right while they are still very young, they surely will learn well and good and will never forget this till they grow old.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 11
Hello Salonga, Thats true parents are the best teacher for a child as it depends on them how they mould their children because mind of kids is like it always catches the things easily you teach them and that depends on you what you teach them.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
21 Sep 11
It is your job to teach your children to respect au throaty, not the teachers. It may be that your children are mimiking the other children whose parents have not taught them proper behavior.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 11
Hello bellis, Yes i teach my kiddies but presently they are too small to undersatnd big things may be when they will grow up then they will understand things better.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
hello sjvg, I thought of the same way too. When my kids are smaller , I thought they will behave as they grow up. But I am wrong..they're much harder to handle as they grow up and even naughtier Enjoy their childish things, you will surely miss those moment once they grow up. have a good day
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 11
Same here, Sister Jai. I see that, day by day i have more things to handle since my son is giving me more works. I always have to put an eye on him, see what he is doing whenever he is awake...
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 11
Hello Jaiho, Oh jaiho that means they will be more troublesome when they grow up. I enjoy their childish things but sometimes these things get so irritating only then i think if my kids grow up fast. @ Myfb - keeping eye on him for 24 hrs is not good i think he slao needs some space.
@akp100 (13640)
• India
19 Sep 11
Hi SJ Its good to know that your kids are rising. And I guess children looks more good when they do mischeifs.. So let them do it.
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
19 Sep 11
Ha ha.. I wish i can do that too. But others will mind if I go for it. Surely they have license for it. And they should do it. And about parents they should keep eyes on them during this.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
22 Sep 11
Hello AkP & khare, Thats true that kids have the right to do mischeifs but some times it becomes too much for us and also becomes embarassing when they do it at public places. Me and my wife most of the times keep eyes on them but not for 24 hrs and when we don't keep they do something severe.
@GemmaR (8517)
19 Sep 11
I think that you have to remember the fact that it is actually normal for children of that age to be a little bit naughty from time to time. All that you need to do is to punish them when they are being naughty, and they will soon learn not to be naughty as long as you're consistent in your responses to them. If your child is being naughty you should sit them in a corner and not let them move for three minutes. If they do move, your three minutes should start again. They will eventually realise that it is a lot easier just not to be naughty, as then they won't have to have any punishments.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 11
Hello gemma, Oh but thats too early to make them understand the punishment as my wife and me do give them small punishments like make them stand at one place for 2~3 minutes or lock them in the room alone for 2~3 minutes then too their is no fear in their eyes for it.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
For me yes because Satan influence them to be not good so that since they are young they know how to be bad then if they get old Satan don't learn more how to be with them.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 11
• India
19 Sep 11
Hey if children are getting naughty means they are more active.This is the way the children will grew.They will be get naughtier and naughtier, once the maturity comes they will start realising things and will be more serious about this.So you must be happy about the progress of your children.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 11
Hello deepak, Yes their naughtiness will be reduced when they will grow up. I am happy with their progress only thing which irritates is over naughtiness.But overall i enjoy everything they do hehehe.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
19 Sep 11
Hi, its wonderful feeling to see the children do various activities at home. Hey, do not think that once they start going to school things will be changed... no way, they will learn more and new things to be done at home. Only relief will be their schedule will get changed as they would spent time in home work, evening play etc. No, sj, don't think the school teachers teach them perform mischief, it is by seeing other kids, TV etc they also behave similarly.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 11
Hello Viju, Oh yes they learn new things in the school daily and repeat that at home.Yes there mischefs will reduce when they will start going to school as they are presently going to play school and will get engage in different activities.Presently they sing rhyms at home which they learn in school.
• India
19 Sep 11
I am married yet,but i have some experience with my neighbours child,he not much naughty but cute and lovely boy.in that time i taught it is not much difficult to take care of child,but then i saw some other neighbour children,who were very very naughty,in that time i thought its very difficult to grow up a child.but now they were going to school,there was little change in them,i hope this change is better than before,like u said i wil hope ur children wil also change.but having children is gods gift,enjoy it.and take videos and photo when they are doing much naughty. Show the videos when they become elder and when they get marry.it wil with be fun with sweet memories
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 11
Hello silpatenneti, Yes i do capture their photos and videos doing mischeifs. I also hope their mischeifs will come to an end once they will grow up and engage themselves in school activities. It depends on child to child as some children are very calm and they don't trouble their parents at all and some are so naughty as they keep their parents busy all the time.hehehe
@labli09 (70)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
hello there sj, you're really lucky you have twin children. toddlers usually behaves like that, its normal for them, you just need to guide them.i really wish i could have twin children soon..hehe
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 11
Hello Labli, Yes i am lucky to have twin children but friend its really tough to raise them up together i have experienced it but now its been bit relief when they have grown up. I remember when they were small it was tough to manange as at night one of them used to cry and we have to get up in the night.