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I don't know if you guys experienced being hated by somebody whom you haven't done anything wrong with her/him. I have a bad experience with that and now it made me not to trust anybody, i got trauma. Let me share to you what i've experience and why i think this person is a hater. When my husband was still my boyfriend we live together and this girl was the girlfriend of my boyfriend's boyfriend. Our boyfriends decided to share the apartment so they both can save with rent. By the time they both went to the field(they are both in the army), me and this girl were the ones left in the apartment and i never know that she was making up stories that i went out and meet somebody else and got home with a toothbrush from a hotel. When my boyfriend went home from field he broke up with me and just said he is not sure bout getting married, it crushed me and i was really hurt. To make the story short he went and make up with me and married me. I just found out after married with him for 2 yrs it just been the topic when we were ready to go to sleep and he mentioned the reason why he broke up with me the first time. wow that's just a lame reason, now i wanna confront the girl like why she did that to me, messaged her but she never responded me, never added me as friend. Now my conclusion is, she hated me and i don't know what reason not unless she used me to be the bad girl to make herself looks good on her boyfriend which is her husband now too. How about you guys have u experienced like this also? hope u understand what i'm trying to say here since english is my secondary language and this is my first discussion made by the way. :)