Long Distance Relationship Disease
By dhana7
@dhana7 (7)
September 20, 2011 5:23am CST
Nobody wants Long Distance Relationship, I guarantee!
If u're the subject, then what will u do to keep this growing better?
Just please give ur ideas or share ur exp in this stuff, and i believe ur post will be very useful for others,,
U can start to share ur exp, ur problems in LDR, ur tricks n tips to make LDR happy ending,etc,,
So, welcome a better LDR!!
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6 responses
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Sep 11
I have been in two different long distanse relationships, one of them didn't last and the other one went really well. After some time I moved to his town and we were together for almost 6 years. I think that long distanse relationships can be hard because you miss eachother and you aren't able to meet in person very often. Some of the things that made it easier for me were the letters and the parcels that we exchanged and our long phonecalls. It was the best part of the day when we were able to talk on the phone. The phonebill was not a pleasant surprice 
but we really enjoyed our phone conversations. Of course it would have been better to meet in person, but that wasn't possible because of the distance so we had to use the phone instead.
but we really enjoyed our phone conversations. Of course it would have been better to meet in person, but that wasn't possible because of the distance so we had to use the phone instead.1 person likes this
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
21 Sep 11
How did you get to be in a long-distance relationship? Unless someone you loved moves away, then I do not advice getting into romantic relationships with people you do not know. This practice can be very dangerous, since you actually may not know who it is you are dealing with.
I find men who seek relationship with women they do not know very suspicious. Why are they not getting involved with women who know them or who can easily locate them?
@dhana7 (7)
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21 Sep 11
Actually,we met at Training Center of our office,we joint at the same class for 2 months.
There's no special feeling at the beginning. But as the day goes by,we felt strange feeling n it's getting deep.
We trust each other.
And "the challenge" started when we have to go back to our placement which is different city n far enough.
I couldn't afford to meet her regularly once or twice a month because of fly-fair n very limited of leave benefit from office.
We realize that we do not know each other very well but at least we try it.
Everytime we talk on phone or meet even not so many,we try to open each other n optimize the opportunity we got.
And for the good thing is we have our ring.
Although it just a circle thing,but we believe it is one of our strong connection.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
24 Sep 11
Hiya dhana,
Well I can tell you that my Husband and me did not want to be apart but we were forced like many others into that situation and it lasted for a very long time too.
So we kept it going just with Letters and that was it as there were no mobile phones, no text messaging, and no Internet lol.
My intuition worked overtime and I always knew what the Letter would be about so I guess our other senses can come into play here as well.
I often knew what he was thinking about before he even wrote the next Letter as well.
I was fortunate to be able to maintain this kind of compensating relationship with him and it was the same for him.
So if the love is strong it won´t die off just like that no chance.
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
20 Sep 11
Well I have experienced that in a while and it is really hard. You get jealous every time thinking that she or he is with someone else most especially during the times she is too busy doing something or she is hanging out with her friends. For me LDR is hard to maintain.
@dhana7 (7)
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21 Sep 11
Yuph, extremely right!!
Just a couple hours ago i felt that feeling,,Jealousy.
She just went out with her colleague for making a Tax Card Identity and having lunch.
It just lunch, but it's enough to make me jealous. And i couldn't do anything because "the distance".
Yes, "the distance" is one of the main ingredient in jealousy. It makes me useful because whenever i feel jealous, i couldn't do anything right away. What i can do is just text or call her.
But every time she convinces me that she will never fall in other guy, my burden just fly away to somewhere else far far away..
And still, I believe in her,,
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Sep 11
I learned nothing from this your discussion.
want to say love can not withstand long-distance or what.
Love lasts as long as everything is real and strong.
nice day!
@dhana7 (7)
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21 Sep 11
Love is real n strong,,Yes indeed.
And i feel it now even we're having LDR.
I haven't fight for a love as hard as this time.
This girl is special and untill now i still dont have the reason why-if u ask why.
This kind of feeling is ilogic to me.
And another fact is we are LDR until we get married.
Well,thank u so much for ur words,pal.
@azis74 (228)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 11
If for two people having love, long-distance relationship is not god choice, because in love need to know the personality of other. Long-distance relationship is only good for the friendship.
