Who's the better person to love back?
By KimLuchia
@KimLuchia (17)
Philippines
September 20, 2011 5:35am CST
Is it the person who's willing to accept who you really are and let you to be the one you wanted to be or to a person who changed you and made you a better person, making his/her life the best one he/she could live? Now, who do you think is the better person to love back?
For me, it's the person who have changed you and made you a better person. I tell you why. With this person, you have changed from a not so good person to somebody who have made himself self - worthy. I'll rather be with this person than to love a person who always do is to accept you even at worst and he/she is not doing anything for your betterment.
If you really love a person, you always hope and wish for him/her the best in everything he/she could have and attain. You shouldn't keep him/her in a box, let him/her live to his fullest. That's a genuine love! :)
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4 responses
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
I will choose to love who is willing to accept me for what I am and love me in that way. I'm all about self change for the better but it's better for me personally if the guy already accepted who I am from the start. We will all change and that will just be a bonus. I don't want people imposing what they think I should be.
@KimLuchia (17)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
Oh well we are all given the right to express our own opinion. On some point I do agree but I'm just saying my own viewpoint and I don't intent to impose it to you. Well, thanks for sharing your comment anyway.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Sep 11
difficult question.
I love when you think that these things are not looking.
My most important thing to know is to love and be loved.
True love is something that can not be explained.
nice day!
@KimLuchia (17)
• Philippines
20 Sep 11
Yes, I think so too. I asked this question to my significant other and he also find it hard to answer. I'm overwhelmed with his answer.. his answer is the same as mine. Haha. I strongly agree with all the things you've said. Have a nice day too!
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
21 Sep 11
The person who did you the most wrong or caused you the most harm. And remember that sometimes, showing love can be as simple as leaving others alone.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
21 Sep 11
It would be a combination of both. If a person loves you they would love you for the person that you are and not try to change you. They change you without trying without knowing. They change you from their love and being with you.
