REGRETS Always Come In The End

I think every one of us had their own regrets in life. I have mine too, if I could have done this and that then...well there's so many of them and its frustrating. But the reality is we had our chance and we made a choice and what we are now today is the result of what choices we made in the past. There's no way we can bring back time and make a different choice. What we have is today and what we do today will have an impact on our future. If we want to change something then we can do it today. Having that "If only" mentality only shows our frustrations and will take us nowhere. I've come to realize that already but then it's easier said than done. So I just come to accept that whatever happened, happened for a reason. We always have a mindset that if only we did this or that then I could be this or that and our thinking is that whatever choice we made in the past will always be for the better but that is not always the case isn't it? who knows we could end up much worse. I have regrets yes, but at the same time i'm grateful. My life now may not be what I had in mind twenty years ago but I'm still alive. regrets will always be there but it should not hinder us from moving on. Just count your blessing....amen

hi neil, Well I am the kind of person who don't want to regret anything I've done Specially if I made that decision all by myself I was hurt and I never regret loving that person because once I've been happy with him happy mylotting for ate pat and zay

No, I have no love partner in life. I have had some marriages which ended for different reasons. I may have done them alittle differently. I might also have done some children rearing differently. BUt not much. I really have had an interesting life and wouldn't change or do much of anything differently.

I suppose all have regrets and I too have them. If I got another chance I would handle relationships better than now. I never knew that there was jealousy among siblings and that belief deprived me of so many privileges that were mine.

hi there, the story was fun and sad at the same time and i know there are a lot of us who can really relate on it. in my experience we were close friends from 1st year in college then we shared a lot together to the extent that we were ask if we are in a relationship or were cousins or even brothers and sisters because most of the people or even our friends told us that our looks are the same..hehe she had been to a relationship so as i but we still hangout sometimes and share things together to the point that his boyfriend and my girlfriend get jealous.. we start to part ways when we graduated and work. she stayed in our country while i go out from the country for work. we graduated 2006 and we saw each other 2010 when i came back.. it was soo exciting seeing your close i mean very close friend.. we started talking about our experiences especially our love life and both of our love life didn't work out.. we shared our feelings and i confess to her my feelings from the moment we get close until the day we saw each other again and vise versa... hehe and here we are getting married very soon,,,hehe soory for the long story..hehe

Ha ha ha..funny story and sad. Regrets will always come in the end and never at first!They are in the wrong time,wrong person they met with and they are hurrying !ha ha ha,,really said to hear.. Well you can't go back the past but you can do is to face those experiences...think,realize why you are in the wrong time and wrong person... And no one is to be blame but blame your self... ha ha... i wish they chose the right person they marry with....and also hope you are in the right person too..

Any of us can look at the past as cry, what if? But this is a useless occupation. There is no going back. Even if you were able to return to a past relationship it would be different now, you would both be different people. Regret is a waste of energy, just look at the past as lessons learned. Blessings

hello neil, I am the kind of person who never wants to feel any regrets. I admit my fault, yes and regretted or feel sorry for my mistake..but regretting for things that I intentionally done...NO. When I intentionally did/done a thing and it goes wrong...I will never regret..it's my choice and no one is t be blame...but move on. We are not condemned to live with the past....but leave the past behind and go on. Oftentimes Regrets do comes at last...but it doesn't mean that we have to suffer from that mistake...but rise from it and be a new person. have a good day dear brother

Hello Neildc, I have a lot of regrets and the first one was the most painful of all, or probably i wasn't mature enough to realize how stupid i had been. the other is that i tried to grow up too fast where i should have just enjoyed more of my teen years rather than imagening how to chase women. I don't think I will be in the same sitaution if i have acted differently. but this is the life that has led me to. i don't want to think of any more regrets, just look on what i have left and move on... the most painful one btw was when the partner on my prom didn't literally dance with me seriously.

I wish that i could share what's on my mind, but regrets in life are those that i don't like to talk about because they make me feel depressed and sad. I don't want to regret all the decisions i have made in the past. I just want to move forward, correct the mistakes and make my life happy somehow by being contented with what i have. If you can sense from what i'm writing, i do of course have regrets but i just don't want to entertain them. I just wish to have a better tomorrow, much better than today and yesterday and i hope you will have one too.

Luckily, so far in my life that I could think of at this moment, I have had no regrets. I have a wonderful marriage with my hubby have been married for almost 12 years, he is also my highschool sweethart. We have two beautiful children and just recently we have started traveling the world and seeing different places. Once in a while we dwell in the past, but nothing with regrets at least none that I know of.

That's cute to hear! For me, if ever I have any regrets then, I'd forgotten now coz it doesn't work for me. I'll just feel bad and frustrated so I practice life with joy in everything that I do. I'm learning how to move forward and be contented and this works! A happy evening to you!

I just graduated my bachelor's degree this year and just passed the board exam. I enrolled in one of the most prestigious university in our place being a university scholar. All the payments in school are free and I have my monthly allowance too. Being a scholar, I need to maintain a grade not lower than 2.0 (85%) in all my subjects either it may be major or minor subjects. Thank God I was able to made it till 3rd year college. The only reason why I was not able to a cumlaude because I got a 2.1 grade in one of my minor subject. Unfortunately the subject is speech. I was just so relax taking that subject because I thought it is just so easy. I told myself that it was just a minor subject, but it has a great effect on my studies. Getting a 2.1 grade is very discouraging. I lost my scholarship, I lost my allowance and most of all I lost my chance to be a cumlaude in our batch. I really cried. I said to myself, If I can just bring back yesterday, I will do good on my speech subject. Well, just what you have said, regret is always in the end. I learned a lesson from it and I'm hoping it will not happen again. still thankful to God for allowing me to graduate and giving me a chance to passed the board.

off the top of my head i dont have many regrets in life i think it is pointless to have regrets because you cannot take them back or change things so your just crying over spilled milk i think it is best to learn from your mistakes and regrets and move on with your life and dont let them hinder your future one of my biggest regrets is not standing up to my father when i was younger he was a very pushy cold hearted mal tempered father and i was too afraid to tell him that he was making me hate him and now he trys so hard to win back my love and trust and forgive him but i cant help but remember how messed up he made my childhood

I honestly do not have any regrets with my husband. I do have regrets for putting up with some men I dated before him though.

Got no current partner, do you know anybody who is available?

I don't have any regrets with my current partner right now but I do have some regrets on my past where in I should have made the right decisions. Anyway I haven't reached the point where in I see my former crush or someone I cared about before and told her that I should have courted her or exerted more effort on her.

I'm not the type of person to regret something that I already did, since most of the time, I think before I act, and risks that I take are calculated risks, therefore, if it fails, i'm not that disappointed. Right now, I'm very happy with my boyfriend, although our relationship is new (just 3 months) we're still adjusting with each other (since we're friends and know each other well. We know how each fooled around before). So far, I'm very happy and I'm glad that I took the risk of our relationship.

I actually have many regrets in life. The course I am currently taking up, the things I have not done to make my grades at school improved, the unsaid words I have not spoken to my Dad who already passed away, the things I have not done to be a good daughter to my Mom and sister to my siblings, the efforts I have not shown to my friends.. I have regretted all these things. But, look at me now.. I am trying my best to do the right thing.. and do you know what it is?? To ACCEPT the truth that in life, there are no rewinds. But we could always have the chance to do what is better and right. We should always keep in mind that if we will continue regretting things.. do you think we could improve ourselves with that?? We should always remember that we must not regret the things we have done.. because for once it was our choice. We have decided to take that choice over the other. Its better to learn from the experience you had and never regret.

a regretfull...i had aloooottt :(( a leave my precious job, my friends my beautifull memory and follow my mom, to enter to the university that she wish... since that, my life full of upset...then i broke up with my very kind boyfriend...then anything getting worst than ever...my study got mess...and evrything seems horrible to me...iam being troblemaker person--for my self only...irritability...and change the very fun and cheer up person became person who dont have anything even a dream... what im regret is not about entering university that my mom want...but i regret because i cant mannage anything with a good way which is use to be...what i did just sad and upset, there is no spirit...and the most i regret...because of it, i made my family sad too..people who love me sad because of me..which is make me feel more terrible...what a lousy now, i try to fix everything that i mess...even they said just too late...but i wont give up for more.....i will life with full of happiness..and bring happiness to evryone near me...especially my mom :)