I am just so stupid!!!!!

@youless (112481)
Guangzhou, China
September 21, 2011 2:42am CST
It is very upset. Since today I wanted to withdraw my money in Alertpay, but due to the high charge, I found whether there was better way to deal with it. And then I found someone who said he could transfer money to my Paypal account and I just needed to transfer him money from my Alertpay account. Then I sent him USD10 but then he got offline and his phone number is wrong. He is a cheater! I can't believe why I am so stupid Just now I contacted Alertpay to dispute it. I don't have a positive expectation that this money can go back to me, but at least this is something I can do
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17 responses
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
We made mistakes, at least now, you know that it's a mistake to send money to individuals. let alone it's a mistake to pay some one to find you referrals.. i hope the earning is not that much.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Sep 11
I met someone recently online and we made transactions with each other. Both of us were skeptical of being scammed. We both sent proof to each other and the transaction went very well.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
It is very bad that people even cheat for such low money.
• China
21 Sep 11
How perilous the internet is!There are crooks all over the place.however ,for newbie like me,it does broaden my horizons.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Sep 11
Yes. You have to be so careful as to who you trust online.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
You have to be careful. I don't want anybody will be cheated again.
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• China
22 Sep 11
Stephcjh,youless,thanks a lot!I am sure to be careful about that.
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@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Sep 11
Well, it is a live and learn sort of situation. You should never send money to someone you don't know even if they sound very believeable and as if they are a good person. They know exactly what to say to get a 'mark' to send them money. They have been doing it along time.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
You are right, but I am too late to know it. Perhaps it is hard for me to believe that someone would cheat people by USD10 only
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@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Sep 11
Any amount is enough for them to try to sting you. Money is money.
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@marguicha (222368)
• Chile
2 Oct 11
So sorry you lost your money! But you should know that you cannot sent money to a total stranger. I only lend money to my closest friends if they really need it or to my closest family. I hope you can get it back, but I would not count on it. And whatever seems too good to be true, is too good to be true.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 11
I blame that how I could trust a stranger...
@marguicha (222368)
• Chile
6 Oct 11
I do hope it was not a big amount of money. But donĀ“t ever do it again, even with people you know personally but that are not closest friends or family.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
22 Sep 11
I'm sad to hear about that.i wish you can deel with that.your money can go back again.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
23 Sep 11
No feedback comes from Alertpay...
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
23 Sep 11
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@edbuex (169)
• Uganda
22 Sep 11
go on girl
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
23 Sep 11
Alright.
@edbuex (169)
• Uganda
24 Sep 11
how far
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
21 Sep 11
You are not stupid, a little too trusting maybe. I am sorry this has happened, hindsight is a wonderful thing. You are a very trusting person which is a good thing but others will use it against you. Hopefully Alertpay can sort the problem out for you. I believe in karma and this cheat will get his punishment! I used to think that people are not that nasty, sadly in today's society this is not true. I hope you get it sorted.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Sep 11
I want to trust a person but i am also very skeptical of them at first until i know they are trustworthy. Even then, you have a chance of being scammed.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
It seems that Alertpay is not as good as Paypal since I haven't heard from their feedback.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Sep 11
That is horrible that someone would do something like that to you. I would demand a refund from AlertPay so they can get the money back from that person. AlertPay needs to fix their site so people can withdraw their own money.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
I don't understand why Alertpay's withdraw by checking and credit card are not available today. It doesn't make a sense. I can accept they charge me about USD5 by checking or credit card, but USD15 by bank wire is just so expensive.
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Sorry youless for being scammed. He there up above, He knows who he is and what He will do to him.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
Thanks for your reply.
@aaidjs (1149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Sep 11
me 09/12/2011 - my pic made by web cam few days ago..just added it to show all of you how i look 5 years later
oh i am so so sorry for your bad experience...and for lost your money,of course...but dont think you are stupid,no ,no you are just good and decent person..you are going from yourself and you look all people that way...i know its something hurt us but you must know /and to be proud on yourself/ coz this showing all of us how nice and good person You are! xoxoxoxox
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
I appreciated to your comfort.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Sep 11
there's just a lot of bad people around and everywhere. so each time we deal with someone that we really do not know personally, we have to check their identities first before proceeding with the transaction. be always careful.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
23 Sep 11
You are right. I should be careful.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
OMG! I would have done the same thing if I were in your situation. That man is a thief. I could not imagine how he could cheat people like that. Grrrr!
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• Malaysia
27 Sep 11
Sad to hear that, youless. There are lots of cheaters throughout the internet & we have to beware of them, especially when we are making transactions involving money with unknown parties.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Sep 11
Yes, we should be much more careful to it.
@kearkear (963)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Sep 11
That's really sounds very bad. I'm sorry to hear that from you. Will anyways, just consider it as an experience. A way to learning that next time, you don't have to trust right away. You have to think many times, especially when it comes to money matter.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
You are quite right.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
Oh, my dear.... You have lost your head on this one, huh. :-( I believe that you can no longer reclaim the money you have lost because whatever transaction transpired between you and the cheater, alertpay or paypal has nothing to do with it. Once you have transferred the money from that cheater's account, then, it is already done and these two payment processors are not liable... Sadly... Well, at least you have learned one valuable lesson to what had happened to you. Never ever trust anyone so easily especially when it concerns money unless you are one hundred percent sure that such person can be fully trusted.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
Last night I looked up the internet and I found that many people has been cheated by this cheater. How come Alertpay and paypal don't do something to it?
• United States
21 Sep 11
I am sorry youless with what happened here. Yes just a bit way too trusting. I can't begin to tell you how many times people ask me that if they can transfer money to me and I can transfer it back and I deny such requests. Even though I know I could be trusted and they even offer to pay me a fee for doing so. The thing is, that most that ask me I do not know well and I tell them they cannot do this with strangers. I am a stranger to most who they ask. I hope you can get this resolve but I wonder if Alertpay will see this as unpractical services. Hopefully you did not stated that it was money exchange and said something like you did not get promised goods.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
I learned from a big lesson.
• India
21 Sep 11
Dont worry about it dude!! you need to come across such non-sense people in this world and be careful whenever you deal with money. Because money always matters. Kindly get through the details and make your dealings.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 11
I learned from it.