How much will you really reveal?

Hi, saphrina. How are you doing? I hope that you are doing just fine! I think that I have revealed just too much of information about me at myLot. Since I have came back, I have been really considering not revealing too much. I don't want to put too much of my personal business about my offline life out there. There are certain things that I want to keep hidden away from the general public's eye. My picture may be the only revealing thing that many members may see. Plus, any of of my past discussions. Right now, I can say that I am dealing with a major stress issue right now, but I will refrain from saying anything about it. Most of the times that I have discussed about this issue at myLot, I have gotten several nasty comments. My situation, is what it is, and many people will take someone else side, because they refuse to see what me and my family may be going through. So, now, I have just decided to keep some of my personal business to myself. If I have to share my concerns, I will make sure that I share it with someone that will not look down upon me as being negative, so to speak.

I don't like to strip tease... Especially near other men. Well, it is a different thing with women though. I don't know but i am more comfortable with women but a little shy too. And i expect them to be a little uncomfortable with stripping too. Trust me, everything was said in the right sense. .... lol

Do you want me share my problem here on mylot my B? well, its about missing the woman I love

I have observed that Users will come to their own conclusion even if nothing is revealed. In the course of our participation here we talk a lot when something about us is revealed though not intentionally. Our Interests say a lot about us.

Hello Saphrina, I usually "just touch the basics to give the mylotters an idea of what I really want to say". For instance, now I'll tell you only that my mother had a stroke. I don't need to tell you more, you can imagine what we've been through these days.

As for me, I am a very private person. I always try not to talk about my private and personal details, especially with online forums. I just go about with the impersonal and technical details in general. So maybe, I can consider myself as only sharing the basics of my life and environment in here.

I won't say I'm an open book but I Will say that MyLotters do know more about my views than my family and offline friends.And yet I haven't revealed to much about my guy.He gave me the ok to what boast? Just as long as I call him My guy. I only reveal a story or two that helps me answer or write a post.

hi saphrina oh lol I am so glad you did not mean reveal as in body as I have m uch there I do not reveal to anyone save my poor roomie who cannot help but see I am a large woman. She was teasing me one day as I cane out of the bathroom in my shortie night gown and my gown was stuck up on my butt instead of down where it was supposed to be. she said as she pu lled it down, You got too much butt. I almost choked laughing as I knew that anyway.I dont know when I started talking about myself here with my diabetes I guess I pretty much revealed a lot about my self. I am sort of like that which my son tells me mom dont tell anything you do not want all spread over the net. so that made me think a bit. I s uppose I do keep some things to myself.one here who really dislikes me called me a woman of mystery only because i Have no photos on my profile page. My explanation that I did not have pictures as I did not have a digital camera. I did not have the money . she did not believe me which is her damned luck. I now dislike this lady very much.she kept insinuating she was going to get my discussion deleted and she did bu t not because of her report but because sh flamed me and I got mad and flamed back. lol So she did not get far either. I am elderly 85 on my birthday Nov .15 and am a widow with an adult son, live here in this tiresome retirement center and love to wrote although I have never had anything published but two Haikui poems. for which i just got a copy of the poetry magazine.anyone who wants to see m y picture its in my account of facebook. I am the white haired lady with Lori, our dumbblondedizzy.

Basically I just let it all out. sometimes I regret that I don't even have a not-so-sinful past. Just saying hi. That is all I can do at present. am up to my you know what with work and other things.

I am ready to watch whatever you reveal honey.

dear saphy, I will start drinking vodka soon as you arrive here

I try to be as descriptive as I need to be to get my point across without revealing too much. Of course, that does not always work, and there have been times when I have unwittingly revealed too much. I think I am more open and honest while trying not to be too transparent.

I share some experience and anecdotes about myself, but I will certainly not share all my life here -- I am not sure my life would interest many people --, even with a bottle of your best vodka.

hi dear, Well I share almost everything but still I have limitations I can only make it all the way if vodka is around

I don't reveal all....just the basic details. I'm that way in real life too. Besides a few close friends/family, I don't reveal everything to everyone. I know I don't come across that way and people think I am a very open person....but I'm not really...unless it is talking about my opinion.

Some of us reveal ourselves in everything we write here: for instance, I am cranky, idealistic, sardonic, compassionate, liberal, Green, a kinkster, completely open if the subject requires it, politically, socially, and sexually radical, a dismal failure at relationship, educated, intelligent, and thinking, and not afriad to say so, ...... Was there anything else you wanted to know? Lash

Hi dear saphrina, revealing problems make us to calm down ourselves for a while and sharing with friends gives somewhat relaxed though problems will not solve, revealing problems to others may get solutions but some can't be rectified, past is always past, i am the one learn from the problems and the past. Many problems we will be facing as a woman household problems, education problems, children problems, adjustments with the family members etc., what not, but i will leave everything to god, because i will get peace with him, sure he will show the solution too. Have a great day sap, god bless you

I normally come up with a real reasoning and upto the mark to the topic. It may be a vague or not precise to the topic. Means without revealing the real fact, we can disclose the matters what we are intended to tell. The topic get discussed and at the same time the real fact won't come up also. Also, it is not necessary to tell everything upfront to express our views. Sometime a partial reveal also shows a feedback to the entire topic. Thank-s

Me personally I think I am exactly the same way, I don't like to reveal my personal things or life to anyone, I prefer to keep to myself. It's not just on mylot is just the way I am. The only people I really talk to is my husband and my mother and sometimes I avoid saying things to my mom so that she doesn't have to worry about it. I normally don't express my personal problems or reveal anything person, my discussion are normally broad and I tend to talk about things that are common and that most people could relate to. Trust me is nothing again mylot, because I actually enjoy mylot it is one of my favorite sites, but it's just the way I am.

Hi saph You'll have to get me drunk first before I can reveal everything to you.