will you change religion if your fiance ask for it?

If your fiance really loved you, they would accept you as you are and not change your religion for them. I find it perfectly acceptable to practice both religions and respect each others' beliefs if you are married. It's one thing to voluntarily convert for your fiance, but if your fiance specifically asked you too, then that's just out of line. Someone who really loves you won't ask you to change because they should love you just the way you are.

Personally, no I would not. And, out of respect, I do not think your partner should ask it of you. I believe everyone has the right to believe in what they want to believe in, regardless of what others around them believe. I think partners with different religions should respect each others religion and beliefs, but they do not have to change their personal beliefs.

If I were you, I would only change my religion only if I thought his religious belief were better than mine. To avoid such problems, it is often wise to date people with your same religious background.

No way,because I know that my religion is the correct way to live and believe.I am a christian and I know that Jesus Christ is my savior.First I wouldn't even of been dating him if he was not a christian.

i will not change my religion, it should be my partner who will change his religion if he will marry me. it would be a true profession of love if he changes his religion for me. i will surely be happy and greatful for him.

No. Never. I can't be expected to change my religion because that is what I believe. I think anyone who would change their religion just because someone wants them to doesn't truly believe, or have faith, in their religion. Just for an example, I'm a Christian, thus I believe Jesus is the Son of God. If my fiance were to ask me to become Jewish, and I agreed, then what does that say about my beliefs? All of a sudden I no longer think Jesus is the Son of God?? That just doesn't make any sense to me! To change your religion, I think someone would have to have a change of heart, not just decide to call themself some other title or classification in order to please someone else.

I personally don't believe in religion, but I respect others in thier choice to beleive. Hopefully before accepting the proposal (or proposing for that matter), one would have thought the matter of different faiths through. Dating outside your faith is fine, if your religion allows it, that is. When the relationship starts becoming serious, it's time to start asking yourself, 'Would I be willing to...' This question not only applies to ones faith, but in ALL aspects of thier life. I think this is why so many marraiges fail, people don't ask themselves what they are willing change in thier life, because once you are married you go from 'Me' to 'We.'

No. And I also don't expect the person I love to change his religion for me. Religion is something sacred, it is one's person's Faith. I've seen many couples with different religion/beliefs who are happily married for years. If you love a person, you will respect, understand and still love that person no matter what his belief/religion is.

What? He is just a fiance. How can he make me change my God? For me, no man is so great as to make a woman change her belief. And I also think that men should not ask too much. We can vary in many ways and still respect each others' beliefs.

I missed the part when Miss shamcey was ask question about religion. First and foremost how can a question about religion been ask. Isnt it a universal thing not to ask or discuss with the public this 3 Question , RELIGION, POLITICS AND SEXUALITY.

I don't think that I will ever change my religion just to win my fiance. If she loves me, then why am I bound by such conditions as this? The way I live my faith will speak for itself, meaning if I live my faith positively and through this, show signs of being able to love, forgive and live the way I am before the God whom I worship, then what is the point of changing my religion? Religion is something personal in the first place. In the place where I come from,where Islam is the dominant religion,I have seen many cases where the girls (aged between 15-early 20's) especially feels forced to change their religion just because their boyfriends says that their relationship will not be blessed by his parents if she would not convert. Some of them even do it in secret - lest their own parents would disapprove of it - and every time, that has been the case. Ultimately, she end up rejected by her own parents and siblings while remaining unsure if her boyfriend would not look for a second and a third or fourth wife, once their marriage is consummated. After marriage, problems between in-laws of different religious persuasions usually becomes acute. No! I think changing one's religion for the sake of maintaining a relationship that has no guarantee of happiness is not a wise move. It saves one so much trouble by dating the opposite gender who professes the same religion.

No,i won't.I feel that religion is not a matter in the context of marriage.If my fiance wants me to change my religion,i better will break up with her because how can i trust a person for the whole life who keeps condition before marriage and i feel that it is once personal matter and a religion is one of the identity of a person.If a person wants to change there religion its entirely there wish,no one can stop them and no one can force them....

Shamcey got the good answer and i vote her.She did it right,and she is proud n what she did because it is from the heart of her.. Some agree with and did not..So it is not the people ,but for the good of her because she is proud to be Good girl,being known to Her God and also great..

no i won't change my religion for my fiance because for me,if he really loves me he would accept me for what i am and what i believe in. so i would stick to what i believe in and i will be proud of it. so if he would insist that i should change my religion, then i'd rather loose him than to loose my religion because religion is a big part of my life and it helps me a lot with my day-to-day life, as to how i face the world each day....=)

no. if someone asks you to change something as important as your deeply and sincerely held spiritual path, then their love for you is CONDITIONAL, and they are not worth marrying. for many people, their religion is a way of life, and colours how they see the universe. it's an intrinsic part of a person. unless they just pay lip service to it. so if someone can't accept that part of you, then they don't love the real you. they love what they think you can be moulded into.

There would be nothing that could convince me to change my religion for anyone. I grew up in a Roman Catholic family and that is the only set of beliefs that I know. I've visited lots of other churches throughout my life, but none of them seem quite right to me. So, I would be willing to visit my fiance's church with him if he would be willing to visit my church with me, but I would not go from one religion to another.

I will never allow this. It is because I can always change my future spouse, specially since we are not yet married. But, I won't be able to get in touch with my God through another channel, the way I am in touch with Him now. I am not saying that other religions are false. What I am saying is that I have a strong connection with my God right now in the religion I am comfortable with. But with other religions, my connection might not be the way I am comfortable with, and so the connection might not be strong like it is now. But with my future spouse, I will always have strong connections, whoever she may be.

If the person loves you for what you are then it is true love else it is a compromise.