falling in love
By ilandagl
@ilandagl (5)
Philippines
September 22, 2011 12:40am CST
I guess... d greatest lesson ived learned in lifeis to:never invest a deep feelings for someone, nEver hope that theyl love you the way you want to want them to.... never expect that those sweet gestures and sweet words are true... becos eventualy evrything becomes a past. sooner or later theyl just drop u off..and will leave you nothing. so i gues id beter train my self to let go of the things i fear to lose..so that wen there gone i wont feel dump and pathetic all along...
11 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hi there Ilandagl!
First, welcome to Mylot! It's interesting that your first post is about love. It is something that is important for everyone and I am sure that you are no exception. Love may change from inspiring to devastating in a blink of an eye when under the most trying circumstances but for love, we have to keep an open mind and know when to fight and when to let go.
You're right. It's always right to keep some for yourself. First, you have to learn to love yourself to be able to love another person. You cannot give something that you do not have.
It is not right to compare and always weigh who loves who more. There will never be equal love given by a couple to each other but what matters is that they do love each other.
@Kaje1994 (3)
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22 Sep 11
Hi Ilandagl!,thats very true.
Love is something that happens to everyone unless we are a kind of machine or something. But many a times we get into difficult situation where we love someone very truly and deeply but do not receive the same from the other side and even though we know of the bitter truth can't just let go of that someone because we just can't live without that someone. It is said not not make any1 ur priority while u r still their option. But we (those in love) does not have such a good sense of consciousness because 'love is blind' as it is said to be. But still it is better 2 sometimes let go of somethings that is not worth keeping. We will just loose someone who never cared for us but they will have their greastest loss of loosing someone who loved them more than anoy other could ever.
It is written here to be as descriptive as possible but another truth is that we cant describe love in words- its boundless.
@prabin_jee (37)
• Bangladesh
21 Nov 11
I think loving someone is very best feeling in life. Its not that loving is bad or not good in the sense that if the one whom you love does not love you back. You should not be disappointed instead you should wish them their happy life and you should keep going with you own life too. Try to accept the truth and do good things in life. Its good that you trying to accept your condition. Better luck with your further goings.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
27 Sep 11
Loving take time to learn and grow, you can't actually invest a deep feeling for someone at the beginning of your love relationship, you can only let it grow overtime after you get to know her /him more. If you invest your deep feeling for your lover at the early day of your relationship due to your naviceness, you should blame yourself for her rejection and your own immaturity without reserve. Yes, sooner or later, she will drop you off after she find other men who is much wealthier and much manupulative. 
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Nov 11
Guarantees, certainty? No one ever gives us ......... You have to get used to love, to suffer, to hope and everything with no guarantee that tomorrow will be better, more beautiful .. ..... is a universe that we create it ourselves, maybe that is imperfect. Looking for perfection usually in most cases where we believe or want to be precise. Raise some friends on a pedestal on which it deserves, just because we want that person to be perfect, and really is in our view. The problem is that as we manage to hurt people who really love us. We are cruel and selfish and we always want more. We accept a lot of debris from the (one) that we consider "friend", but they are very hard on others!
We are always looking for perfection, but the truth is that we never find, because, as I said Huxlei "perfection has no counterpart in reality".
@BannedHelsing (693)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Hey, you sound like your broken hearted and depressed. Cheer up, you'll find someone who will love you as much as you love maybe more. for now, charge it to experience and move on. Love and be love. happy mylotting!!
@amudhabe11 (13)
• India
27 Sep 11
people fall in love in different types like love at first site, deep thought love. falling in love is no wrong, we can think before we fall in love but we shouldn't turn back once we fallen in love.
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
everything you said is true and correct...this is the ideal principle one must keep in mind upon making the decision to go into a certain relationship. this is easy to say for an outsider to someone who is heart broken and depressed. but for that someone is in the middle of a relationship its not so easy to keep this mind. it just so easy to give 100% of yourself and become so totally blinded with love.in reality we become foolish when in love and we do crazy things we don't use our heads most of the time we forget that our heads are placed above our heart. sometimes its too late for us to realize that we're more than knee deep in trouble and its hard to get out and some are lucky to be saved just in time and are able to move on and become totally whole persons again and learn from that sad experience just like you and me!!! :)
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
its a nice feeling to be in love but don't give it all especially if you're not sure with his feelings to you because you will just leave alone and rejected. .
God bless
@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hi Ilindag,
It seems you are new to mylot,but your first post seems to be a good one.Well I think not all people take other for granted.There are still some who love you the way you love them or even more.My advice is love with all your heart,but don't expect too much so you won't be hurt when things don't go the way you want them to.But not all people take other for granted because my best friend gave me more than I expected from him.Good luck!
@richietagaro (17)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
yeah your true never invest a deep feelings for someone, especially if your not sure..make sure that u know him/her inside and out..welcome to mylot!..enjoy!!
