does wedding shows that you really love the person whom you with
By Ayeth22
@Ayeth22 (66)
Philippines
September 22, 2011 12:45am CST
I am 25 years old and i am not married yet. I been i a relationship for almost 5 years and we been together. For the 5 years that we been together we really know our qualities the individual behavior either its bad or good. Recently he was asking me why we don't get married into the church and have the blessing of the Almighty God. But this time i was confuse if i am going to say yes or no.. but deep inside i am not quit ready for this kind of thing because i am afraid of responsibilities and i am afraid that if i am going to married i am not able to make my own discussions in life.. There are things that he would not allow me for sure!..Does it make sense after all 5 years that we been together i should say that this is not the right time?
2 responses
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Well,if you love each other you are to plan to marry and it is up t you..
You want to escape to not marry,because not ready and scared of difficulties to come,but you will go in that one day..Every one can face such kind of hard times but it depends on the two lovers how to handle the situations they have...
I am also not married yet, and also waiting to marry, and i am sure i am ready son,excited and expecting all the hard times because there is no success if you don't face those unwanted things in life..just to move forward only whatever comes in life..thank you..
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Oh,really nice country that there is no divorce..
Yes hope and sure that the person i will hhmm is right for me !Now you are looking someone than that person?
wow you are turning so fast.. a ha.. leave that !go! ha ha.. maybe you will find someone who will gives you the deep joy...enjoy!
@Ayeth22 (66)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
befrindwithme26
All i can say that i hope that you can find the right one for you and good luck for that!.. There are lot of factors why i should stay in this way because you know once that you are married you cant escape the fact the you going to stay in that way for the rest of my life especially iam in the country with no divorced!.. and i cant imagine it!.. Maybe i will stay in this way which i know that he is not the one who can give me the real happiness i been looking for!. thanks
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@love2click (366)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Well it's your choice. If you feel that you are not ready for married better to tell him. And also don't forget to site your reasons why you are not ready for it.
@Ayeth22 (66)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Right, its my choice but still i am confuse every time he ask me about it maybe i can say that i am quit bored and i feel that he is not the right one for me and still i am looking for the one that you know we have some like and same common but still i am afraid to tell him the truth.
