Letting to is to prove that you love that person
By Ayeth22
@Ayeth22 (66)
Philippines
September 22, 2011 9:21am CST
It's to selfish to hold on someone you love which you know that you are not for him. I been struggling that for a certain of time. I meet a guy about a couple of year. We been together but then i figure that he loves me but in a certain that the love he gives me there is no spark you know what i mean. He keeps on telling me that he loves me but sad to say he is flirting with someone. I was hurt but then i learned to let him go because its more than a success to see him happy with the one who he really loves and give him the real essence of happiness.
6 responses
@Harold_ks (1673)
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22 Sep 11
Yes, you just did the right decision of letting him go. He was not worthy of your love. He was been selfish that he stayed with you even he knew that he didn't love you anymore. You should be happy that you are now free again and available and the right guy can now enter the path of your heart. I am hoping that you will meet the right guy soon. Good luck and take care of yourself.
@Harold_ks (1673)
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24 Sep 11
He don't want to let you go because he still wants to play with you. You are one of his possessions and he wanted to add more to his collection, that's why he keeps on searching for girls. That's the sad fact about that. He is really not the type of guy to be serious with. You've really done an excellent move on letting him go. Do not ever regret leaving that kind of guy. Don't worry, you can still find the right guy. God bless!
@Ayeth22 (66)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Right he dont deserve any single cent of my love. I was confirming him before why he cant let go me which he keep on dating and looking for someone on the dating sites. But he told me he can't imagine what life is when we been apart. It was a right decision of him by bringing girls to our house. Then i decided to end up freely. Thanks a lot Harold
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 11
hi ayeth22
it just one of many prove that you love someone. how can he flirting with another girl? did he no sense about your love? or vice versa?.
to prove your love, not just about let your love go with another, but since she/he still with you.
@Ayeth22 (66)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hello henkipranada
We been together but still he don't stop joining dating sites and dated with the girls. I feel guilty because i feel to down. Then the last time when he bring a girl in our house it was the end. And then i decided to end this up. Recently i look up dating sites which he been then i found out that he is married. i was hurt but then to make him happy is the greatest decision I've ever made. thanks
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 11
so, he is no sense with you.
i can't imagine about all you said. you must have a good heart. in my country, men like that, have been get punch or kick by other.
well, a stronge woman like you, will get a good boyfriend. have a nice mylotting.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Hi there Ayeth 22!
You are right. True love is unconditional and it is selfless. I read from somewhere that it is hoping for the happiness of the person that you love even if you are not part of that happiness.
@Jackieholder1 (84)
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22 Sep 11
Personally i dont care about his happiness in this case sweetheart, i care about yours. I applaud you for letting him go and then on top of that you want him happy!! He doesnt deserve you, i mean you love him and this guy is with OTHER women. Thats not right in my book. You so not selfish but this guy does not deserve our love, you seem like a wonderful person and someone who will flat out cheat on u does not deserve to be so loved by someone such as yourself. So I say great for letting him go but I think you should try to not love him, it will be hard but sweetheart you deserve sooooo much more.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
22 Sep 11
I had the same kind of experience. I let someone go in name of love and I cried about that for 14 years. If it comes to that I changed my mind. I never fought for what I wanted but always said from the first start I would let him go if ...
Not fighting for, not making a fight, asking why or what or how..
I would never do that again. If you love someone you have to show that and fight for it (and I don't mean being obsessive and stalking)
@cowgirl03051979 (918)
• United States
23 Sep 11
i agree if it is meant to happen then it will work out i had to learn that the hard way after many heartbreakes sometimes when you are in a relationship you are blinded and you dont realize how bad things are until you break up all i can say is be certain in your decision because once some bridges are burned they cannot be repaired so so let him go then realize you shouldnt have by the time you realize the mistake you made it may be too late
