Does clothing really matter in society?
By samafayla33
@samafayla33 (1856)
United States
September 22, 2011 8:09pm CST
People can be really stupid and really plastic when it comes to personality when they turn to one that looks like they may have money and then turn to a poor person that isn't exactly dressed right. Do you think that we judge too harshly and treat people with disrespect based onn their clothes and appearance?
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11 responses
@Fire10 (293)
• United States
23 Sep 11
Well, clothes really do matter in this world. I don't think it is the highest standard by which we judge people, but it is the quickest, simplest, and easiest way to do so. So it happens.
I see clothing as a frame for who we are - it is not the way I'd like it to be, it is just what I have observed to be true. Our clothing doesn't change who we are, but give others ques or insights as to how to perceive us.
It changes perception.
I've also learned in my personal life and experience that what we wear and how we appear gives other people hints about how we feel about ourselves... and these other people tend to view everything else about you with the respect that you manifest for yourself physically.
So one can be ignorant of these facts or use them to their advantage. I think most people are very, very aware of what they choose to wear...
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
I think alot of people these days judge more on looks and shoes.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
23 Sep 11
What a clever response, but how do we perceive ourselves in what wear? What is the best thing to wear?
@Fire10 (293)
• United States
23 Sep 11
That all depends on what you want... :)
How do you want to be viewed?
What personal traits do you want to be accentuated or displayed for public view?
Or, most importantly in my opinion, what aspect of you is most important?
To you? From the public view? In the workplace? At home? For your lifetime? For Friday night?
Also, I think people should dress as to not distract from the most important parts of who they are. Or in other words they should choose to draw attention to less important aspects in expense of more important aspects.
I'd like to be more blunt/sharp with words... ;) and I will be if anybody wants to hear it straight. :)
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
clothes and appearance more than often tend to create an impression, sometimes reflecting a preconception of one's personality. Based on appearance and clothing, one would presume if one is either rich or poor, fashionable or conservative, exhibitionist or out-of-this world, lol! but what is important is the person behind the appearance and clothing, on how you handle and carry yourself and that would define what you want to project to others.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
I agree. I now dress for comfort because of my body size. It does not mean I am rich nor poor. It is just my choice of clothing.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
23 Sep 11
I like dressing conservatively due to lumps and bumps that are out of place. I just want a slim waistline and to look neatly, not to impress, but to look nice.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
I am not going to pay my butt out of the yin-yang to look like I am starving either. Those nutrisystem, medifast and stuff is an industry to make fat people binge into larger sizes. I think if you lose weight, it's cause you want to be healthy and you don't have to be a diva selling a plan that you can do on your own without the material..
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
We are not here to judge anyone. If a person is poor and of course can't afford to dress as expensively or extravagantly as the rich I don't think we should ever disrespect the poor just because of this. A person is not measured by how expensive his dress is but by purity of his heart. A person can be poor and dress just as simply as he could afford but that does not mean we should look down on that person or we should ever demean him for we are not supposed to demean anyone. Every one deserves respects regardless of financial standing.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
Very true. Some people are just more fortunate than others.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Oh yes... real beauty is in the person not in the clothes they wear. What is the beauty in a person who wears the most expensive clothes but arrogant and full of pride? I'd say there is more beauty in a person with tattered clothes but filled with true kindness and humility.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
23 Sep 11
I have seen more beautiful men in their old jeans and their old tees rather than aa nice dress suit or casual wear.. what about you?
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Sep 11
If we dress up neatly and nicely, that is the best part we can provide for others. We can see it as a trend that many people, especially ladies have the habit of talking about other's dressing patterns. However, if they are much bothered, I think they should take care about themselves and comment on others. It is another way of commenting that what they are done is perfect and all others are wrong. This is not fine and many people do the same with others, especially when they are in a group or accompanied by someone else.
Assuming that we can adopt any kind of dress patterns, it is not recommended everywhere. Some fashionable people think that whatever they do is well and good even thogh they look like nomadic people from the 14th century.
Thank-s
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
Color Coordination, classic styles, scarves, ironing, hose, and not too much makeup is just as good and lasting as something designer. Kids go to school in austerity to learn the value of education based on no distraction of how the other kid is dressed.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
27 Sep 11
So nice. A decent dressing showing an individual's culture and behaviour upto an extent. This is the reason why some companies are so particular on dress code and having neat and tidy express the smoothness of individuality.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Unfortunately the answer is yes. Our society is so judgmental now. People tend to judge each other with how they look and no longer how they really are. The thing is there are a lot of rich people who dress poorly and get treated harshly while there are a lot of not so well off people who dresses nicely for show and gets treated well.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
23 Sep 11
I like rural country life, and I like my pjs and my big old tees. I cut my hair short after years of having it long and I don't like it that much I accept it because it grows back. I have basics but the red mud where i live clings to everything and the cute guys around me think i am a weird nos.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
Very true. The rich always look down on the poor. They think they are better also.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
Especially when that poor person's jeans are faded in all the right places and that rich person has to have those faded designers that looks just like them the next year.
@best2011 (210)
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23 Sep 11
i think the society should not judge people by their clothing but the teuth is that infact they do. in european countries, people may wear clothes which will be unethical for the asians while western countries might feel that the dressing of asians is indecent.. but i think the society should respect each other's culture instead of criticizing it. so, i would say here that respect each other religion, dressing, culture, country..
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
Exactly. Some people have to wear uniforms also and they cannot wear just whatever they want to. That does not mean they are poor though.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Sep 11
Yes. I think alot of people do that when they are younger more than when they are older. The older we get, the less we judge on brand names.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
lol i have missed out on so much that hasn't got to do with brand name, it doesn't have to be that way. We could go out in walmart or dollar general and I would be just as happy with you the way you are and you with me.
@Galena (9110)
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23 Sep 11
clothing really isn't that important. you can't tell if a person is kind or nasty from the way they dress. you can't tell if someone would be a good friend or a good co worker from the clothes they choose to wear.
it may give you some ideas of the sort of things you have in common, maybe in interests or music. but liking the same things won't mean you'll like each other. I've had friends that I have VERY little in common with, but they were just such great people to be around.
clothes don't tell you anything that really matters about a person.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
Exactly, there are people that some that I am around don't like. They like me for a few things off that I think is just something I can't get rid of. It makes them laugh and then we are still friends despite of their dislike for the other one. :) that's what it's all about!
@GemmaR (8517)
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30 Sep 11
I don't think that clothing should matter, but unfortunately it does. In the smallest sense, it matters whether the clothes that we wear are clean or not. This is because our clothes can show a lot about how much we think of ourselves and the amount of pride that we put into our appearance. People who wear more expensive clothes tend to be those who think the most highly of themselves, and we an normally deduce that from the first meeting. First impressions are vital, no matter what anybody will say, so it's certainly worth taking an interest and placing pride in the things that you wear.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
30 Sep 11
One thing that I learned by the Royal family this morning, Measurements...Measurements can really make you look good on a dime. It doesn't matter whether you wear "Prada, handmade, or walmart, you look best when you know your measurements exactly, and if you don't cover your wasteline with straightlines and straight styles regardless of body type. I am full figured and heavy. I think straight lines work best for me.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
23 Sep 11
I know several people who place judgement on others by the clothes they wear and the likeā¦It saddens me that another should form an opinion of me because I may or may not be wearing a designer brand. I used to think that folks like that were only in the movies until my daughter started school and there I met other mothers and so many are superficial like that. I love looking nice but I do not base my whole self-esteem on the way I look. Surely there is more to me than that...
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
I like thrift stores because stuff is a 1/4 than other stores and there are "brand names" people give away stuff because they are tired of something and want to give back to the community. When you give back to the community, it helps the local economy and when you support the the local economy, God supplies all of your needs, but if you have accumulated wealth and are in the public eye you can still enjoy those gray sweat pants that were worn out a few more years without buying another pair. For example, Bill Gates haircuts and his shoes.
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@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Yes. I myself do that. I know it's wrong but since we live in a society, we should take good care of how we look. Yes I know that what matters is how you are inside and that we should not judge based on appearances, but our first impression of a person matters. A big factor in a first impression is how you look and how you hold yourself up.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
24 Sep 11
Eyebrows, hair, teeth, clean clothes, that perfume that your mom says smells good eventhough it's only $1 body fantasies samples. You walk into a store a woman's wearing your outfit and she smells good, you ask her what the cologne is and she says "Ed Hardy" or "Mariah Carrey". You say wow and you go and pick it up. :) that's a good impression the other woman made in your outfit.