i want a child....

I suggest you visit a doctor preferably an obstetrician-gynecologist. The doctor can do some test they will know if you are ovulating or not or if there are other health concerns that hinders your pregnancy. You can also ask your husband to have sperm count.. I think this will help you both a lot so that you will stop wondering why you cannot conceive. There are some couples who just find it hard to conceive but there is nothing wrong with them. But there are some women who have problems ovulating. There are some medicines that the doctor can prescribed which helps a woman ovulate. If there is nothing wrong with you both. I'm sure your doctor will advise you both to just keep yourselves healthy, eat a balanced diet, and stop worrying about not conceiving. I am pretty sure that your husband loves you very much. If he is truly in love with you, he will stick with you no matter what. Not having a baby is not enough excuse for a husband to leave his wife. I have some friends who have problems conceiving but she and her husband agreed to adopt a child instead. So, think positive and make an appointment with an ob-gyne as soon as possible.

The best thing to do is to seek medical advice from a specialist in the field such as a gyneacologist or an infertility specialist. He will make the necessary tests to try to ascertain where the problem/s lies. It coiuld be you but it could also be a problem from your husband,. There are several causes for infertility. Once tests' results are issued the doctor will guide you to treatments which will be needed to try to solve your infertility problem. Regarding whether your husband will leave you because of this it is really unfair if he does as he would not really love you. It is important to discuss this issue so as to help each other not leave each other. You are a couple not individuals.

there is no need to panic. you and your husband have to talk it over. you both have to see a doctor. before going to the doctor, tell him about your fears. that will ease up the burden.

I hope this does not sound stupid from my own experiece, act like you don't want to get pregnant and then you just might. I even seen this happen. I remember jumping up and down to make my period come but of course it did not because I was pregnant. Just relax and say it to yourself. It just might work.

I totally understand your sentiments. I have friends who are in the same situation as you now. But never worry, there is always a solution to every problem. Since you have been together for awhile now, I guess you need to consult your OBGYNE doctor so that you will know the real reason why you are having difficulty conceiving. It is best if you bring your husband with you when you visit your doctor so that you will both hear what the doctor has to say and what are the things you need to do. In other words, the doctor will be able to assess you physically and prepare your body. It is good if your husband is with you, that way he will be able to understand the situation and provide you with all the support you need. In this kind of situation, you both really need each others support.

How much do you weigh? if you're underweight that can cause irregular periods and you should eat more, Or are you stressed or working out all the time? There are a number of factors that cause irregular periods. I would go to the OBGYN like everyone suggested they can fix. Don't worry.

Go to the OB/GYN and see if you can get medication to get your menstral cycle back to a regular schedule or if there is another reason why you cannot get pregnant. If your husband really loves you then he won't leave you.He will work with you to try another way to have a family.Such as a surrogate or adoption.