my bestfriend turn to be my suitor...

I had just finished my novel about bestfriends who fell in-love with each other. it was a happy ending because they both love each other. Your story is different. He loves you but you don't love him. If you think its a nice move to tell your feelings the earlier, it would be better. It will give him time to find another one as early as possible.

Hmmnn... You don't have to force yourself if you don't love him as boy-girl relationship. Just be honest with him, so that he will not expect much from you. B U T ... What if you might realize in the end that you also love him more than friendship? Maybe the thought of loving him did not cross your mind now because you are already confident and used of his presence and his friendship with you. What if he will be gone, won't you miss him? What if he will find another girl and he will take it seriously, would that be okay with you? Though he has other relationship before, but am pretty sure he always find time to be with you, what if he wont do that anymore with you? Won't you miss his company, his attention and everything? Give time to think and reflect. You may also want to tell him that. Good luck my friend.

just tell him that you do not think you too would or could work it out being more than friends, either way... you willhurt him. he has feelings for you and loves you. i am sure if you tell him to be friends, that would hurt him but you are sincere and have been honest, if you decide to try and give him a chance, it could give him false hopes and that would hurt him as well.

That sounds neat, I thought that only happened in the movies. If you are single, why don't you go out with him a few times and see what happens and think positive. We are unbreakable, the problem is we think that we are actually breakable.

Why you don't like him? He is your best friend for 15 years and I'm sure you are very aware of his attitude. I think he will get hurt if you reject him but you have to tell him your feelings though he will get hurts.

you just have to be honest with him. tell him what you really feel about him and make that clear to him. it is better that way so that he would not be hoping for too long. 15 years was pretty long for him to be hiding his feelings and that would take long more if you would not clear your intentions for him or what you really feel for him. i hope you talk to him soon. Godbless you. :)