Can you stay in same house?Without talking with your partners or parents

I think that each people who live in the house has different personalities..There are people who live in home just to be silent,shy to talk, or just do not talk . Or board to talk, not interested to talk,or not like to talk to the person...or not close each others. but for me,if i am in the relationship i will talk ,or even in the fights maybe my partner will talk..

Hi fanta(my favourite cold drink) This is the new topic for this week "HOUSE" If there is quarrel happen with any of family member or friends i stop talking with them. This thing mainly happen to my younger brother and we both don't talk to each other i know this is not good habit as we are live in same house but i don't like to talk with him or any of the family member or friends after arguing to them you can say it is kind of my nature. Yeah i start talking but after some days of quarreling. friend i will try to get rid of this bad habit.. Keeping smiling

Hi fanta, I too can’t spend time without talking with the family members. I felt much hurt if somebody does not talk to me properly at home. In between me and my hubby, I may keep silent for 10 minutes to show my disappointment on his behaviour. I do this when I felt hurt his remarks and don’t want to reply to the remarks. But soon we compromise (lol). One week, not talking each other... I can't imagine..

For a day or two I think I can but not longer than that. You see I am a talkative person and need to let the conversations out LOL I enjoy talking and it would definitely be difficult for me living under the same roof with people not talking to me.

Yeah, I did. I know it's not right but I need to...to let him know that I'm mad. I'd rather choose to keep silent than making blah-blah or use profane language which is normal when you're totally pissed off.

I couldn't imagine going a whole day without talking to my fiancee. We have to talk to each other otherwise it would seem a bit lonely. I talk to her throughout the entire day. Whether we ask each other questions or just casually talking. I just don't know how people could go even a day without talking to the one they love.

Sometimes, when a conflict is so terrible its just best not to talk. But I agree with you, I can't imagine not talking to my husband for days on end.

Hi! It is very very difficult for both of us to keep quiet, even if we had a tiff or some heated arguments. If we enter into some arguments, after few minutes, we start talking to each other as nothing happened. We are normal human beings and getting angry on any issue is quite normal for us but that does not mean that we should stop talking to each other. In my view if stop talking, it will create more tension and ill feelings for each other.

I think that the silent treatment is pure torture. I couldn't do it to someone that I care about and especially if I care about the relationship. My ex used to give me the silent treatment whenever he was upset. Most of the time I didn't even know just what it was I did to upset him. I can't tell you how many times I apologized for whatever it was just to end the silence between us. one time and the final time, he went weeks without speaking to me. I refused to apologize as I had no idea what I'd done and I'd grown tired of the childish game. I tried many times to talk to him and got snubbed. I packed my stuff and dealt with it while I looked for a place. I moved out and on. That was 11 yrs ago and to this day, I still don't know what his problem was. It's not a good way to keep a relationship strong.

No talk is not a solution of any problem. We can resolve our conflicts with everyone with conversation. Some time it may be possible stop talking with someone for one or two days. But more than it is not possible for me.

I can`t spend even a day without talking to my family or my friends.I can`t imagine what would be like if I couldn`t connect with them for a weeks.Parents,who don`t talk to their children for days are not parents for me.

Like you, I really cannot take it without talking with people that I live with. Knowing that we're living under the same roof, avoiding someone is very awkward for me. It doesn't feel good. And as much as I want to feel better, it's better for me to initiate the talk and be of good terms because it's the best thing to do. As an old saying say, "Never let the night pass without settling a dispute with someone."

I can go for long periods of time without talking to people but that's just because I'm not much of a talker.

That is hard. I wonder how you cannot talk to anyone in your house for a week? That is bad. I can't begin to do that. In my case, if I don't want to talk to anyone at home, I just go somewhere else and come back later to sleep or come back the next day. I heard about some couples not talking to each other for a long time though they are living on the same roof. I guess those people have a big house and they can have a separate room and don't care with each other. See if you have 4 or more rooms in a house and you get mad to anyone in your family or your partner, it is easy for you to use the other room alone and never talk to anyone. But that is hard and I probably cannot take it. It's better to be separated than live on the same roof and not talking for a long time.

That really can hurt me and i am experiencing that way now.. I can hardly live without talking to him but it happen now. Anyway he is not living with me but we are in distance. I hardly live that way even to my friends coz i dont like to live alone in the world. Now if there something happen inside the house i am also feel bitter if there is something wrong between us my husband and me,, i really got affected. How much more if he your partner and love life i am dying to talk with him. I feel not better if there is something wrong around me. Why make life happy if we can ,,,

Whenever I'm upset with my parents, we usually try not to speak to each other. But occasionally, we're forced to speak to each other because of certain situations. During those periods of time, I vow to never speak to them ever again. And then, we slowly warm up to each other and begin talking to each other again, as if the argument had never happened. I can't imagine not talking to my parents for too long, as they're my best friends, and more importantly, my family. Happy mylotting!

Hi Fantabulus! How are you? Perhaps you would want to start another discussion.. Can you in the same house? Withouth talking to your in-laws? ahahhaha!

Yes couples who live on the silent treatment will cause the relationship to fail. I can tell you that with my ex-husband we both use to do this. I believe I sort of grew to accepting that speaking to him was a waste of time and in reality it was a waste in the relationship as a whole. No good can come of it and will cause the relationship to slowly distance with time. Your friend has to figure out a way to calmly explain to her husband that something is wrong and or what the problem is. What is going to happen is that with time the silent treatment will last longer and longer until the entire relationship is beyond repair. No I cannot do like your friend no matter how hard I would try, this talking chatterbox needs to speak at all times. lol

I remember one time I had really bad argument with my partner ( We don't do it often) and after that I did not speak to him more less about 10 days. I was so angry ans the truth is that I missed him so much. But we needed this time to " clear the air" between us and think straight. As answer for your question I'm able to be silent and live in the same house with my partner.

Sometimes me and my mom are the same way as your friend and her husband. We sometimes dont talk for days, my mom typically stays upstairs and I practically live downstairs so that's probably how it ends up happening but with a wife and husband I think it would be different since many of thier belongings are so close with each others