My son is nagging me to bring along his kiddy bicycle...

You have done exactly right. You have remembered that you are the parent, and he is the child. You have to make sure he is safe. He may be sad, but he will get over it.

Try telling him that he would be too busy there to ride bicycles as his cousins are there and he could check out what other games they have there. Some kids just like to show what they have to other kids, you know, feeling a bit proud and showing off.

To travel somewhere, I won't bring such a big stuff for my child as I love to travel light. To some other small articles of toys, it is no problem. In your case, it is right for you to think about the kid's safety first. Enjoy your parenting life.

Hi myfb, In my opinion village is the best place for riding cycle. If he is good in riding his cycle what is the worry, there won’t be any traffic and there is enough, safe, open space for him. I am telling the same from my experience. It is not possible for us to carry the cycle with us but in village cycles are available (cousins). Actually he is enjoying his ride there, never met any problems so far. The same time it is difficult to carry the cycle with you on traveling, if you are going to travel a long distance.

In a new and different area he is not familar with it could be a problem. I would just tell him there will be new adventures to go on in this new place and he won't need his bicycle. I bet if you went online you could find some things in the area that would be of interest to him and take his mind off taking his bike.

I too will think about my child's safety before I pamper him. But what if we try asking you aunt first if it is alright for you to bring your kid's bicycle with you. If she says it's okay and safe enough, then I don't see any problem. But if you already told your son "No", then better to just stick by what you said. :)

Hi myfb! Safety should really come to mind first. But what if your aunt's village is a safe place to ride a bicycle? Your child would really be disappointed. You can always make a deal with him. Like, tell him you can bring along his bike but if the place is not safe, then he can't use the bike. I think this is what I would do if I were in your situation.

I am also after for the safety of my children. They can have fun no question about that, but if their safety will be compromised I cannot allow it. Do not bring it if you really think it is not safe for him to ride his bike there. Unless, if there is a park where he can go biking or if somebody can be there to be with him while he is on his bike. My children, especially my son, are pretty adventurous too. They had their share of little injuries but thank God nothing serious, and I hope nothing will ever happen. It is rather be good to be more cautious than to be sorry.

Yes, I think you made the right decision. If you are not sure if the village is safe then better just don't allow your son to bike around. We parents are always after the safety of our children. We can't be just carefree about this issue. I for one would not bring along the bike of my little ones when visiting a relative. I also do allow my kids to bike around our village provided I am with them, otherwise they can't bike outside. Our village is generally safe but I still would insist looking after them while they are biking outside our yard.

you are right. stick to your rights. tough love is best. some day he will understand that you are a good mom.

I think that is a good choice. If your not sure about the safety factor them I just wouldn't take it either. If there are other children there, they might let him ride their bike if the village is safe.

hi myfb, if he was my son, i would say that i will not be buying another bike for him so he has to make sure to take care of it by leaving it at home. and i will not carry anything more bulky somewhere except him. just be firm. he may not be happy but then, make him feel that you are the parent, he is just child and need to follow. he will forget about it soon. not to worry. [/em]ann

hello sis, Oh,this reminds me of my second son who also insists to bring his skate board each time we go to my hometown. It is too dangerous since my hometown is a hilly place. I know he knows about it and insist that he will only use it when we go to parks where he can use and play his skateboard, but still I am not comfortable about the idea. So,we also had fight about it before... :) kids really... take care and enjoy vacation sis

hi myfb, Your decision is right better to be safe rather than to regret it later Maybe he can still have fun there even without his bicycle happy mylotting

I would not take it there either if it is not safe.

i will also think about the safety of my child first before thinking about his pleasure. there's no regret coming ahead.

Yes if you are sure it unsafe I certainly would not take it either. Bring along some fun entertainment things he can do so that he at down times has some things to do. As you safety has to come first.

Parents are the one should be please not children. Try to explain your side and maybe he can understand you since your priority is his life. Or bring something for his 2nd alternative.

As per my views, I'd surely bring a bicycle for my child.You can opt for the cycle which has supporting wheels along with the primary wheels. This will help your child to make balance on road first. it will be safe as well.

i think i will take along his bicycle.child is just a child,just do angthing they like ,as long as he do not make mistake.i konw you worry his safety,but as a mom,you have the duty to look after him.all in all,make his life and childhood meaningful