When You Feel EMPTY and ALONE

You are right my sis some time we feel very sad and alone even the lots of people around us but we feel alone. We dont want to meet with anyone and not want to share anything with anyone. But why you feel this I think whenever you will feel this you should join mylot and read the discussions and enjoy it or share your feelings or problems in mylot.

Even when you feel empy and alone, there are always going to be people around you regardless of your situation. Think possible ways around your sadness, keep hydrated, keep your thoughts positive and don't think about the same old track, think about a new track. Try to push yourself away from the old track with a way you want it to be and then make it happy, don't worry about others, they'll be happy once you have reached your goals.

Hi Bhabhy! Remember that every day can not be Sunday. Each day would be different in our life. So take the life as it comes. It is up to you whether you want to feel happy or feel depressed. Indulge in something which gives your joy and pleasure. Feeling sad and empty does not help or serve any purpose. All the best. :-)

hi bhaby, i guess it happens to anyone. especially to people who are about to have their menopause no am not saying you are near that stage. i just wanted you to laugh. best way is to be with happy people. dont sulk. keep talking to people, and you will forget why you feel empty and sad. ann

Nothing in life will ever be impossilbe sweetie. Just take your time and relax. Missing someone normally make one feel that way. Remember all of us change and its hard sometimes to find the old you, but it's not impossible.

Hi friend! You are a true human being friend,that's the only thing you are feeling now..being human. Sometimes,we can't understand and explain why despite all the blessings we are having now,we feel it's still incomplete. Most of the time I feel the same my friend as I always miss one important person in my life,my hubby. Hubby is very kind to tell me that I should just read the Bible and I will know what I am missing. I guess God has spoken to me and now everything seems easy for me and I can easily accept what's missing. Just hold on to Him my friend and everything will seem to be complete. Take care! Missing you and jai!

I'm sorry to hear about your sadness. I don't know how to make you feel better . all I can say is know that there are many here that support you And that I hope you will feel better real soon.

One should never feel empty and alone! There is a reason why one gets those feelings. If one feels empty then he can fill the emptiness. If one feels alone then he needs to correct something as no one is ever alone. How can one be alone in a world with billions op people and billions of spirits. He is out of tune. He needs to reconnect as he has been disconnected. All the best!

Yes we are sometimes in this situations even we are almost complete in our needs. There is always lack in us and almost dont know where to find that happiness. But i am sure that we can find this one to Jesus. Because He is perfect and He will give you all you need and the lack in your life He will patch it for sure. He is a true friend and complete happiness in our life. I assure you this thing.

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Hi Bhaby... Are you single? I struggle with this feeling too. I go out with friends, chat with my virtual friends but still.. this feeling bites me. I dont want to think that i can only be happy if i meet the one meant for me. I was told that if you find happiness from others, it wont last. Happiness starts from within. I also believe in the Law of Attraction, lonely people ends up with other lonely people as well and i dont think that would be healthy. What do you think?

once in awhile feeling empty only makes us human, but i hope it is just a passing thing and not a permanent one as it could be categorized as 'severe depression'. if you're missing people, then why don't give them a call and surely you feel better and hopefully rekindling the past would put a smile on you face.

Right,whoever can't find the lost time and the previous.thus,we should value now and try to do something you want.Sometimes,it feels really alone and empty due to you have the more free time.you can enjoy other activities in your spare time.Besides,time is like water flying and never go back.it is significant to do the valuable in the limited time.Enjoy yourself!

Feel alone and empty or hollow is a very pessimistic mood which may drag one to more depression.Many times it need no sufficient reasons for such mood. Engage in entertainments with friends who have considerations about one's depressed mood may produce better results.

I have always had this feeling. Maybe because i do not understand what life is really all about. I do not know what my purpose is, what and why i was here for and i do feel i am empty, alone because it always happen that i am by myself, i feel that i have no importance, and that i am not doing anything good... though i feel exhausted trying to prove that i have worth! =( i don't know its just a very weird feeling

there are times that i also feel empty and alone. even how complete i should be with my wife and my children. when problems come and they come in bulk. and you don't know where or who you will call for help.

i experienced that sometimes too, i call it my down days. i think it is normal to feel it once in a while. there are things in the past that we missed and there are things that we wish to do or have. although sometimes, we just feel empty and lonely without knowing why. the thing is we are human enough to feel it. whenever i feel lonely or down, i just reminisce about my past while listening to my favorite songs. it is soothing to feel it once in a while, for we learned from it. and after we overcome it, we are more strong and ready to face life and reality once again.

This is one of the reasons why I try to keep myself and my mind always busy. I don't like to have a lull wherein I could dwell on things and let my insecurities creep in. There are some frustrations in life we all try to keep hidden. And once in a while, when we are alone with our thoughts, we think of these and we are left feeling 'empty and alone'.

Unfortunately all of us go through those days, sometimes we get cheered up and sometimes we just want to be left alone and think things out for ourselves. Atleast you have friends that worry about you and don't want to see you any type of pain. I do however hope you pass what it is you are going through, stay positive and think that you will overcome it.

Hey Bhaby! When I feel like that I try to pray and ask the Lord to open my eyes to see all the blesses that I have around and understand that we always have more blesses than problems in our life, and you will see all the lacks of the others and compare with your actual situation, you will see how bless you are, don't worry even Jesus Christ had this kind of moment when he felt as bad and lonely that he wanted to quit of destiny and asked his father "Father if are willing please take this cup of suffering away from me yet. I want your will to be done, not mine". Everybody can feel like that one day but don't worry everything is going to be better. "Life isn't simple but the beauty, of it is, you can always start over.It'll get easier"