What will you do if you caught your live-in partner seeing another woman?

Yes it is sad that anyone would put someone else, especially a cheater before themselves. If a man loves me as much as I love him there is not reason to cheat. I will not recommend to others to leave their partners but I will say, what will happen if my partner contracts a disease and or gets someone pregnant, where would that leave me? What you need to do is dig deep and ask yourself what exactly about your partner makes him special enough to allow you to accept pain. I am sure this is painful and love should not hurt. I was married to a cheater and while I had two small kids I refused to live in pain. I struggled, but I raised two wonderful and respectful kids. I could not allow my children to continue in the destructive path I was living.

We have a baby... And it is one of my reasons why I cant just leave him... I am truly confused. It is really hard to make decisions, and as of now, I am hurting but I think I can still manage.. The girl knows that the guys has already a baby, and has already a girlfriend. Sometimes, I want to kick her but I know it will not change the situation. And I know were not of the same level... Im gettin tired, honestly... I am about to explode but sadly. I love him.. Dang. How i wish i get bumped and forget everything. :(

I am not cheating, as well. It saddens me to be cheated, but I do not know now... I dont know what to do, if I know what to do maybe im in denial mode because I love the guy himself... tsk. so sad

How can a partner say they love you and cheat? Saying he loves you and you forgetting about the situation does not get the partner to stop cheating. If your partner feels that you can forgive him easily and he can keep doing this then he will. It is a tough situation, to deal with but you have to think about you. Not sure if you have children, if not best to really think hard before having any in this type of situation. Good luck and do take care of you.

Oh I get it, they are just friends and they are talking about some business opportunity. We can only give you some advice. In the end it is still up to you if you believe him or not.

The thing is, the woman is single... What if the guy says he loves me? He's just doing it because of some reasons? Is it acceptable?

I have caught my guy too... But the thing is, I know he's seeing other girls... It just hurt me more if he's lying to me about it. But at least his being honest, not pretending to be a clean man. But i dont know... I dont know how long can I absorb everything...

hi gracie.. its a hard thing to cope up with right? you know i thought before that i would easily walk away from someone who would have the guts to hurt me this much. but i don't know. i am trying to understand the situation first and i just do not want to rush things... i hope you too would be able to find the peace you want from your relationship. ihope you'll realize your worth as well. do not always be ready to forgive him right away...

Its really hard... My heart is gettin heavy tryin to cope up with the emotions... My head is aching tryin to understand the situation, as well.... OMG...