I really had a bad day today!

@jdex_143 (1093)
Philippines
September 26, 2011 5:15am CST
I think, I am tired of my life's situation right now.,. Huhuhuhu.,. 2010 and 2011 didn't brought any good to me.,. I hate myself for allowing this things I am going through to happen.,.
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11 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
27 Sep 11
Hello jdex. Probably it didn't bring you good, but have you ever thought that at least you are healthy and that is the most important of all, compared with financial status and material life. Therefore from this kind of sense, it has brought you something good. I wonder whether you would agree with me. Enjoy your life, friend.
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Sep 11
I think that you are the only one that can change your situation. Either by physically or mentally. Sometimes it is easier said than done but if you want it bad enough you can certainly make a change. It takes committment and to make a change takes 90 days of continuance persistence.
• United States
26 Sep 11
You can't change it? I'm sorry. i wish I could help you make the badness vanish but I can say write me here and I'll listen.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
26 Sep 11
Aww don't worry dear friend. Everyone has one of those days and to be honest these days seem to be like that for me too. And frankly speaking, 2011 has not bought anything special for me too and all I hear is bad news. I am so sick of it. I hope the final few months turn out to be better than now coz I seriously have had it. I have taken too much crap and cannot any more. 2010 was wonderful for me. I learned so many things and grew inside. Anyway I hope the final few months of 2011 are really wonderful for you too. Good luck
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
26 Sep 11
Don't give up just yet jdex. Remember, everything happens for a reason and maybe what happened last 2010 and until now this year has a reason. Maybe next year, it will be good for you. Just have faith and be you, everything is going to be fine. :)
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@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
26 Sep 11
Hi, cheer up, ok. There are always ups and downs in this life. As long as you are still alive, there's always hope. Don't focus on the bad things that hv happened to you. Dwell on the gd things that hv happened instead. If you hv ever heard of the law of attraction (It's really true!), then you shld try to dwell on positive and gd things. Gd luck to you! Pls remember that bad luck is only temporary.
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@GemmaR (8517)
30 Sep 11
I think that everybody has had a time at some point during the course of their life that they thought that they were very fed up of and felt as though they were having bad days all of the time and they were just generally stuck in a bit of a rut. I think that you need to take some time to really think about why you're having such a bad time, and just see if there's anything that you could do to make things better for yourself. Don't feel as though you need to cope on your own; there are lots of people who would be able to help you, like your friends and family.
@singuri (571)
• India
29 Sep 11
If i am in a bad situation i never get into depression or feel bad day because i feel everything happening in my life is for good sake only. I believe in god a lot so i wish in every bad situation that some thing more good is going to happen that's why only i was in bad situation now. As my belief never gone wrong still. So i can suggest for my friends also the same thing think positive in each and every situation we face one day definitely we will get good results only.
• Malaysia
27 Sep 11
jdex_143, I don't think so that you solely allowing it. For sure we never want to had a bad day right? Sometimes (but in my case mostly) people around us who cause, who made, who given us a bad day, there's really nothing we can do about it. Our happiness based on how people around us treat us, not solely based on us to make it a happy day.
29 Sep 11
hi dear friend ,!* don't be that upset ,anyone can face bad events in thi huge life , but the only thing that van make a differnce is ...the HOPE , so don't forget to be positive and to wait always a good tomorrow AND EVERYTHING gonna be alright ! SO just smile ...GOD is always with us !! have a nice day darling :)
@bokkers (48)
2 Oct 11
Well, bad things happen to people all around the globe, all the time. I don't know what you are going through, but if you think your world is falling apart, try looking at others who are worst than you, look at others who are better and learn from them, or self meditate to learn to satisfy with the things you have. I hope one of the ideas work for you, if not do all three. There is nothing in this world that could make ourselves happy if we don't allow ourselves to be happy. Cheerio mate!