Is it so hard?
By TonyBenitez
@TonyBenitez (243)
United States
September 26, 2011 8:23pm CST
I like being myself its the best I have a lot of fun with my friends and every day is not the same. I'm a random person I do things people say no to for example I went to my college campus in heelys but it is so hard with people judging you all the time. So is it hard for you to be yourself with your friends or can you go solo and be yourself?
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@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
hello,
Yes, that is true it is really hard to be yourself if people keep on judging you in all your actions.right? This is also happens to me many times because I need to mingle with them because if not maybe they will bullied me? Nowadays being who you are makes you other people look at you as a bad person. But I always take to my mind that I will not peace everyone. 
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@TonyBenitez (243)
• United States
27 Sep 11
Yeah that is the depressing part for me, I guess people have nothing else better to do which sad. I want to enjoy life, I want to be me and not like everybody else. Being me is the best in the world and don't be afraid I put myself in that position all the time. You will make true friends if you are who you are.
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@holliekillen (14)
• Germany
12 Oct 11
The best thing is being yourself. You have to be your own individual person. When your not being yourself around your friends means that they truly dont know who you are. The best thing about having friends is having them know you for who you are. An the best thing for yourself is to be yourself around everyone. Im not afraid to dress the way i want act the way i want or say what i want. I am a person who is "take it or leave it" kind of girl. I want people to love me for me and who i am as a person.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Oct 11
hi TonyBenitez good for you, thats the best way to always be. forget those who judge you as they are being hypocrites. I have learned through the years if you are comfortable in your own skin people do tend to like you and those who do judge,forget about themn they do not count As long as you are not breaking laws or being bad, its wonderful to just like being yourself.but being yourself does not mean doing wrong things or illegal things, those will lose you friends for sure.
oh welcome to mylot by the way hugs from hatley[
oh welcome to mylot by the way hugs from hatley[