I WANT TO DIE, says my friend

Well, we need to accept the facts that all relationship is not successful as the others. There might be reason to discontinue that relationship...

Sleeping with a broken heart is really the hardest part. Just be there for her when she needed someone to talk to. Usually people who are hurting needs a friend to listen to them. These kind of people don't listen to advice but they want to be heard.

Hi emjay. What a good friend you are. I feel that your friend needs a slap to wake up. Is this what your friend wants for life? Does she enjoy being a miserable victim? The guy is trying to dump her and she won't take the hint. In the meantime her self esteem is becoming more badly damaged with each passing day. She needs to stop being so silly and dramatic, she is making a fool of herself. Don't get me wrong, I do feel sorry for her because I have been there and had my heart broken. One guy was seeing another woman without telling me he had broken up with me. Even when I called in to visit or spoke to him on the phone he was mean or evasive, he still could not tell me. I felt like such a fool. He certainly wasn't worth the pain and shame I felt.

i wish you'll be able to reach her soon. that hurt thing can not be in any way be remove from any relationship. if you love somebody prepare to be happy and get hurt sometimes or oftentimes ..and even expect or anticipate the worse part which is separation..hope she will could coupe up with this soon

Being a person that has been through some very tough breakups in my life, I will admit that a breakup or being hurt by someone that you love can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to you. What your friend needs right now is a friend that is just willing to be there for her, be it someone for her to talk to or even someone that can just be with her. It might not seem like you are doing much for her, but you really would be.

It's good your friend has you to comfort her in this heart crisis. Pray for your friends that she survives her ordeal and while doing so remind her it's not yet the end of her world. The guy does not deserves her and somebody more worthy is just waiting somewhere. Try to have her go out and enjoy her being single with you. After all she needs to celebrate her regaining her freedom again as single!

We women go through this way too often and it's our own faults. We think that another person will make us happy and complete us, we "fall in love" but what we really are is infatuated and obsessed with a person we have chemistry with. We need to learn to make ourselves happy so that another person can complement that happiness, not give it or take it away. Your friend should take a long vacation from men and figure out why she fell for such a cruel person so that she won't make the same mistake again. I'd rather never have another relationship with a man than go through something like that again and it happens all too often. Men are just as sick, somehow needing to hurt others as much as we need to forge relationships with those who hurt us.

Tears will fall but your friend will find her true love in the right time. Your friend really need a person to talk with. She will have a chance to do strange things if she's alone. Keep talking with her and make her laugh and keep giving advice to her. Happy myLotting!

Sorry for your friend. But she is still lucky to have a friend be there for her. So it's the loss of her boyfriend. Your friend deserves a ture love and a better guy.

I'm not an expert in these things but I can totally understand her. No. Never been in such situations like this but saw how broken my friends' hearts when they get hurt by a guy. Guys like that doesn't deserve to be love in my own opinion. But who I am to say such things right? I hope your friend can move on soon and become stronger.

Yes it is very difficult to see our friends in so much pain. It is even harder for your friend because she cares for this personally deeply and he doesn't seem to care. Times like those are really hard. Be there for your friend. Spend time with her doing things that she enjoys and try to take her mind off of her problem, or help her to develop a different perspective. Perhaps she will be able to find someone really deserves her. Let her know how much of a wonderful person she is and that someone who knows her true value will treat her with love and respect.

Sometimes feeling heart broken can really get out of hand. It messes up your emotions, makes you feel down and just ruins your life and those you love around you. The guy your friend is after is totally not worth it, what kind of guy would want your friend to suffer like this. So are you saying they're still together even after what the guy is obviously doing to her and that she loves him so much she doesn't want their relationship to fall apart? I think your friend needs to move on, this guy is just going to make her life a mess. There's plenty of fish in the sea and she can definitely find a better guy. But i she persists, try and get them together to talk because this can't go on forever.

please tell your friend to pray and have faith. Nothing is impossible with God.

She is just wasting her time and precious moments on a person who doesn't deserve it! She ought to understand that there are people around her who are concerned about her(including you). She should be grateful for that and try to devote more time for people who cares for her rather than lament about the one who doesn't even care for her emotions.

I do relate to your friend! I’ve had my heart broken in a cruel way in the past and the pain was huge but it did get better in time until I eventually met someone who treated as I deserved. All you can do is let your friend know that you are there for her and remind her that in time she will feel better and that there will be another man for her who will treat her like the princess that she is. Bad break ups are tough and it sounds as though the guy in question is behaving in a very cruel manner and he is not worthy of her tears.

hello, Sorry for her but tell her that everyone experience that. Tell her that this is not the end of the world for her I know she will find someone who is more worth it than him. Make her comfortable to you because she is in pain and need to talk to. I hope you can reach her soon to make her feel better. I know when she know that someone is there for her she will feel relieved. good luck!

I wonder why the ones that break our hearts are the one we love the most. I have been there and I know it hurts like hell. But time did heal my pain. I think the right thing would be for her to leave him. It might be a very difficult thing but time does heal us all. And yes supports or friends and loved one are needed. I am so sorry your friend is in that state now. I hope everything turns out better soon.

It is hard to watch when a friend is hurting so badly. She is lucky to have you by her side to comfort her. It's pretty hard to give up someone she seems to love so much but hopefully you can help her understand she is worth more than someone being a jerk and cold to her. She deserves better.