Best place to go when you want to be alone and just cry?

@chiyosan (30183)
Philippines
September 27, 2011 9:44pm CST
Where and what is the best place to go get some fresh air when you want to be alone and you just want to cry your heart out? what is it? Or when you want to be alone and you want to just cry and no one to mind you (except your house if you are living with family members), where should one go, walk? What about you? where do you go when you just want to be alone and you want to just cry and cry and be over with the pain you feel?
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Sep 11
i think i would go to the park where no one knows me. or when i am in the province, i will talk a walk in the beach where there is fresh air.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 Sep 11
i will just dress up like one "taong grasa".
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Even if no one knows you, people would look at you and you'd look pitiful as you cry in the park, neil .
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
haha oh no... that's not quite a great idea if you would want to pose as a taong grasa. Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I drive somewhere with a pretty view ..like a park, or hillside with a view of the mountains etc and park the car and cry. I haven't done this too many times but I prefer this over letting my husband see me cry because it would break his heart. Of course years ago when he hurt me I let him see the tears and childishly drove the point home that he needed to make amends...but I gave that up
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
thank you stary for your response. how i wish i have a car that i can just shut my self into it and cry. i have had my moments, i wanted to cry, but i can't
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
28 Sep 11
It's hard if you don't have a private place to go. How about the bathroom and cry into a towel..I have done that so no one would hear me..I am soooo sorry you and everyone ever has to feel so sad....I wish I could help.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
thank you stary. yes i live with my mom and my brother. when my mom hears me, i am sure she'd always be at my back asking and won't leave me alone. she is always like that and i never really had any privacy... =(
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Hi chiyosan! I usually go to the bathroom if I want to be alone and cry. But if that's out of the options, I think I would go to a park and sit somewhere secluded so I can cry my heart out. But if I just want to be alone and think, without the crying park and without my room as an option, probably I'll go for a joyride and think while driving my scooter or think while riding a public transport.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
thank you for your response, maybe that is a good option. just travel, go places and not know where you might end up going. :D i think we all need to be alone sometimes and well... of course it would help us enjoy the time for ourselves, pamper ourselves too... :D
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Gives me time to talk to myself.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
28 Sep 11
There no place to be alone, and you can cry your heart out. The real problem is that you should be brave enough to face it. Why not lock yourself up in your room for a day or two, and you can think things through your mind, your head. When you finished with your depression, refresh your memory, and restart your booting mode, start all over again.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
@Nubein (20)
• United States
28 Sep 11
My escape where I haven't been discovered at yet is on the roof of the house. I use the ladder that is going up the house to get to the roof and I find a good spot and sit for awhile. Although the roof is visible from anywhere in the yards, no one ever thinks to look for me there. I may go on the roof to relax or for peace and quiet, but I haven't went up to cry yet. Honestly when I am feeling grief or pain and need to cry I allow myself to do so freely as I experience it, and where I experience it.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
• India
28 Sep 11
one of the best place where i can cry aloud is my house. if i feel sad or feel like crying i just go into my room, lock it and cry aloud, so that no one knows that i'm sad.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
oh good that you do have your room =( i wish i have that kind of privacy. Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Sep 11
I don't actually cry all that often, but if I feel as though I really need to I will go for a shower because this means that nobody will hear me. In addition to this, it often makes me feel a lot better as I find the warm water relaxing, so I am often in a much better mood when I get out of the shower than I was when I first got into it. I sometimes cry late at night when everybody else is in bed, but I hate to cry in front of people so there is no way that I would ever cry in front of them unless something was seriously wrong.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Hello there! thanks for your time in your response to the discussion. appreciate your sharing this to us... hope to see you around and have a happy mylotting day! Godbless you.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
inside the comfort room. most of the time, i go to the comfort room, and sit on the bowl, with the lid closed (of course). i cry all the tears there, pray from the heart, and recite my petitions to God.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Great to see you in the discussion! I hope to see you around, thanks for your response and see you around the site, have a nice day! =) Godbless you.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 11
i think i prefer choose internet as my place when i get some problems..iam not familiar for crying so it`s hard for me for crying..
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Hello there! thanks for your time in your response to the discussion. appreciate your sharing this to us... hope to see you around and have a happy mylotting day! Godbless you.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
For me only in the Comfort room and get alone in my room after I cried much I feel good.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Hello there! thanks for your time in your response to the discussion. appreciate your sharing this to us... hope to see you around and have a happy mylotting day! Godbless you.
@allknowing (137764)
• India
28 Sep 11
I will go to the toilet and have a cry to my heart's content.A cry is spontaneous and what better place than the toile where no one has access!
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Great to see you in the discussion! I hope to see you around, thanks for your response and see you around the site, have a nice day! =) Godbless you.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
sea side beaches..... and you see that even the waves are go with the tide to face future, and not the past....
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
oh my, i wish i live near the beach. =( Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
@Ghajini (776)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
I usually do it in my bedroom. However, if ever the opportunity will come again lol, well honestly I don't want to cry anymore but I know it's normal. It's because I just recently recovered from a severe depression and other anxiety problems and honestly I am not even sure if I have fully recovered. However, lately I don't feel crying anymore, I feel that I feel nothing anymore lol, but probably my body just got used already with the things I have been suffering from and thus made me stronger. Anyway, I think crying on top of a mountain would be awesome but definitely risky, also I have personally climb a mountain alone... that's how lonely I am lol... however I didn't manage to reach the top since I am scared and unprepared as well. Happy lotting!
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Great to see you in the discussion! I hope to see you around, thanks for your response and see you around the site, have a nice day! =) Godbless you.
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Hey, when i have problems something i have to cry about is i did not go out, i just in home hiding in room,acting that i am sleep cover with blanket and sleep.I just can't go out if someone here home and see me crying i just stay home ,and cry.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Hello there! thanks for your time in your response to the discussion. appreciate your sharing this to us... hope to see you around and have a happy mylotting day! Godbless you.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
For me the best place to be alone $ cry is my room and in the beach. There is no place for me to be alone than my room, while the beach is big enough for me to hide somewhere so I can cry out loud.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Its great to have you in the discussion, thank you for taking time to respond, appreciate your inputs herewith. See you around, and happy mylotting! Cheers! d=) Godbless you.
@omchesunche (1755)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 11
I have never been in this case..However I think people will need to calm them selves going out to garden and spend time for themselves..I found many people spending their "own time" in the city garden, especially in the afternoon..We can also going to the beach, however sometimes we must able to control our mind and refresh at that time..
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
i think i could always use a couple of hours to myself. i have found a way to do this, though it may not be really safe especially walking alone in the street... its not always safe nowadays!
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Sep 11
hi chiyosan if i want to be alone and cry i am at the church and it relieve the pain and i am relaxing praying to God it is really difficult, to be alone
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
the church! yes.. i have gone to the church myself last friday and well it was really some kind of experience. the peaceful environment, the candles burning... best place to go too. thank you for your suggestions.
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
28 Sep 11
I live alone, so, I usually just go to my home to be alone. But, when I am at my parent's hous, I go to my room and lock the door. I really don't know other place to go to do that.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
its good that you have your own place and no one would mind you at all. thank you for your response.
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
28 Sep 11
In this situation I just prefer to cry alone in my room. My parents rarely come into my room so the best time would be to cry silently in my room and pretend that I'm sleeping. I don't like it when people catch me crying and then they start going into your face asking why you're crying and are you okay? It's nice that they care but I just prefer to cry alone and crying in front of them makes me feel shameful. If it's outside of home, I just go to the restrooms and lock myself in the restroom and cry in there. No one will disturb you there. I know not a very appealing place to cry in but it's the most private I guess for me.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Hello there! thanks for your time in your response to the discussion. appreciate your sharing this to us... hope to see you around and have a happy mylotting day! Godbless you.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
28 Sep 11
Yes its the best question to answer. As when i feel worried i want to cry alone without getting noticed from my family members. I go long walk from my house there is a place like beach but its not beach where some peoples comes and relax somewhere. So i go there and close my eyes and i cry a lot then i think it would be end up my sufferings.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
hi there naseemkum. it is almost always for me too, that i want to cry alone. when i know its the only way for me to unload the burden i feel in my heart. i hope i can really drive myself to the beach like you do... bless you!