Proving someone How much u love him/her

Philippines
September 27, 2011 10:05pm CST
proving someone how much you love him/her is not about how long you can call or text him/her.. How many hours and minutes you've shared together and how long and sweet you can say I love You to him/her.. Its about how long your are thinking of him/her at times you're not together and how loyal you are wen he/she is not around...:)
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@SinfulFox (135)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I agree on the last part - you know you must really care for someone when you are loyal and good to them even when they are not around. If you had an opportunity to cheat on your partner with someone else and turned it down, even if you knew you probably would never get caught, it really shows your character. But I don't think how long you think about them shows love. When girls in middle school get boyfriends, they usually think about them constantly and draw little hearts around their boyfriend's name and stuff like that... but I don't count that as actual love. I also think that the time you've shared together is important. Why do you think people love their pets so much? I'm sure a woman who loves her cat realizes that it's probably not much different than any other cat, but the time they've spent together is what makes it special and 'better' to her than just some random cat. Even though people are supposedly higher than animals, I think we work the same way. I think two people who share a lot of time together are brought even closer. That's why childhood friends are a popular romance story, and it also explains why when a guy and a girl know each other for a long time (and spend a lot of time with each other) one of them usually ends up falling in love with the other.
30 Sep 11
I you loved her/him ,you should absolutely trust him/her. If someone can go through the hardest time with you ,not just share you with the merry-making time, that proved he/she love you something like that...all the feeling come from your own experience`` you can touch it personally
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
your right,trust must alwyz their in a relationship... "Trust is like a mirror..once its BROKEN you can never look at it the same agin"
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
i agree with you, but love should always be shown... and should always be made feel to the person you love... love withheld is not really love when it is not shown. I think there are a lot of ways to prove the love, the feelings if it is true; love is a constant battle, it is something two people in love should always be working on...
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Sep 11
I think that the most important thing in life with regards to telling people how much they mean to you is simply to be able to do the little things in their every day life that show you that you love them. You don't have to do big huge romantic gestures to show that you love him, but you should be able to show him that you're there for him whenever he needs for you to be. You would hope that, in return, he would be there for you whenever you needed them. I know that this is the case with my partner and I hope that it will be this case for a long time in the future.
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
..Actions speak louder than words..Stand by him/her through thick and thin and he/she will come to realize your love is true..
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
ouch....this discussion really hit me....i had bf now, our communication is through texting,calling, chating sometimes... (I know that he loves me, I also loved him..)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
ohh gud for you lyn..even if your far from each other still he communicate w/ you..he proved that he loved you:).. goodluck:)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
its all in you on how to handle that thing..coz i prove my husband that i really love him in doing such thing that could not make us quarrel,angry..mad..etc..
@padu19 (1441)
• India
28 Sep 11
It depends on your partner. It is not always necessary to keep proving that you love that person. However, occasionally making them feel your love is very essential. Taking your partner for granted by not paying enough attention to that person, assuming that he/she will still love you is the biggest mistake that a person could do. It is true that your partner will still love you if he/she is true to you. But this may create a feeling of insecurity in them! Hence, prove them by paying some attention. Give some surprises. Everybody likes surprises specially it is from the loved person. Express that you love that person a lot. But, don't overdo it. It might reduce the value of your words!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
There are many ways to prove how much you love someone. Sending message and calling are only one of those ways. I have my own ways of proving to my love how much I loved him and he knows about it. I don't need to prove him more because he can feel it in his heart and he knows I have proven enough my love to him.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Those are just some ways of showing how much one loves another. In my case, i don't have to prove my love to my husband anymore. He knows and feels it all the time that we are together as husband and wife. Working in order to help him in our expenses is one valid way of how i love him. There are small and big ways we really can prove our love to our partners.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello, That is true! wow! I just realize that I just love my boyfriend because of all what you stated is me. Well, I am not just being bossy but I am just being honest. Because in some ways he really shows me how important I am though I am often say I LOVE you word to him but instead I am just being loyal whenever he is not around.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello, That is true! wow! I just realize that I just love my boyfriend because of all what you stated is me. Well, I am not just being bossy but I am just being honest. Because in some ways he really shows me how important I am though I am often say I LOVE you word to him but instead I am just being loyal whenever he is not around.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi there rich! true.. it's not about the number of hugs and kisses you give to him everyday. it's not about how expensive your gifts are. but the number of sacrifices you did just to keep him happy. proving to them how much you love them is very difficult. because people vary with their standards but whatever it is.. love the way you love and that's just it. sooner or later that person would realize that you truly love him.
@guanguan (73)
28 Sep 11
i do agree with you,love is not only the words you say,but also the things you do.and the later is more important!
• United States
28 Sep 11
For me, I am showing my fiancee how much I love her by staying loyal, and marrying her. I plan to stay with her for the rest of my life. She is my everything and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for her. I would go to extraordinary lengths just to be by her side and I will stand beside her and never abandon her. I can't express how much I love her by using words because there isn't enough words and I just don't know how to express it. I try to tell her but every time it comes out as "I love you". I look forward to marrying her and I will be honored to call her my wife. To stay loyal and spend the rest of your life with someone that you're in love with, that is showing them how much you love them.