What is love ?
By edumate
@rollylolly (2843)
India
September 27, 2011 11:20pm CST
Some say love is permanent and it never dies while some say love is a momentary feeling . You may have that feeling for someone for sometime and then it can shift to another person . In that way love stays , only the object of love changes . Does true love really change ? One who keeps on telling you " I love you " , "I can't live without you " and so on , can oneday leave you and whisper the same words into someone else's ear ? It's so confusing . What do you think friends ?
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11 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
28 Sep 11
i think that yes someone that says he loves you today can say it to someone else later on. just the one that is meant for you wont do that. thats why we must not believe just in words but in actions mostly. if someone says he loves you it doesnt mean anything unless he shows it with his attitudes. i learnt that with all the guys i liked and in the end i saw that they just said things but never really showed it
much. true love doesnt disappear but for you to know if the person you love loves you really or not it wont be by his words but by his actions towards you^^dont believe in words^^ we get much hurt bcs we usually believe in sweet words. its sad but is true bcs this happened to me already a few times. trust the person you love but trust also in his attitudes. if his attitudes show that he loves you, then you can believe in his words^^
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Thanks for all your good words and advice . I know words are often fake but it is also true sometimes attitudes are deceptive .
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Subhan'allah , it is really inexplicable . Thanks informer for the beautiful lines .
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
28 Sep 11
Thanks informer for your lovely comments . I do understand urdu .
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Love indeed is forever, but the feeling to a certain person fade.
Loving someone fades if it is not properly cared.
Love grows again and again, same feeling but to a different person.
It may sound confusing,but NO.
You will get to understand if you lost someone you love and found a new one.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
28 Sep 11
Thanks jai . May be it's true . It may take time for some people to move on and that interval is very painful . Does it really fade ? Was Tennyson right in saying " Old order changeth , yielding place to new " ? May be time will say it all.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
28 Sep 11
if that person is your true love, then no you wont be able to forget. but if he wasnt then yes time will help you to forget^^ love is confusing sometimes but if you really look to what happens when you are with that person, you will see if the love is real or not. also dont forget that if you care so much for him he has to care so much for you too. then this will be a true sweet love^^ that wont fade no matter what happens. you and him will end up together. this is true and not just a sweet thing that everyone says. a lot of people has a happy ending. so i believe that we all can have it as long as we are good and ourselves^^
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Thanks sweetloveforeve . Your comment is very well thought and meaningful . You defined love so well.
Good wishes:-)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
29 Sep 11
I read a discussion in mylot and in that the love definition is explain in good manner various type of loves if love between father and child means affection, ferz, if love between mother and child means Mamata and if love between brother and sister means caring and if love between husband and wife means born the lots of child ramu, shyamu, and radha ahah..
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Thanks didi for your response . You got so many definitions of love . Last one so funny...hahaha
@omchesunche (1755)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 11
Love is has thousands meaning and it can be different between one person to another..Most of people think love is about to care in relationship which should shown by mutual understanding and sacrificing..that's my two cents only..
have a nice mylotting days.. nice topic of discussion anyway..
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
It is true that love has different connotations . It should be logically a mutual relationship but that does not always happen . Thanks for your response .
@passion3924 (121)
• United States
28 Sep 11
then that is not love .. love is something that has no explain if they really love you they would not hurt you
@GemmaR (8517)
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28 Sep 11
I think that the feeling of love is different for everyone who experiences it, and it is important that you understand this before deciding to ask anybody else what they actually think about love. For me, it is the feeling that you would do anything for a certain person and that they would do the same thing for you. I feel like that about my partner, so I know that I love him and that he loves me. I think that love is a label that people all too often place on the feeling of lust, and this means that there is often a lot of confusion.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
It is true that we are ready to do anything for the one we love . We may sacrifice even our lives for them . But I beg to disagree with you that the one you love will always reciprocate the same .
You are lucky that you have such a good partner . Good luck to you !
@koperty3 (1876)
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28 Sep 11
I don't know for sure what love is. After my accident my partner did not leave me no matter that he knew that I could lose my leg. So I think that is love. Love is when I prepare his lunch for work next day and when we joking even when we are silent but we still are together.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
You are so lucky koperty that you found your true love . Yes those small nuances in life makes us feel the existence of love.
Good luck friend !
@Ghajini (776)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
I am still single and lonely somehow since I am all alone... my family are in abroad while I am left here in my country to pursue college.
Anyway, all the sufferings I have been through just made me stronger. I know GOD gives us these problems, obstacles and trials because HE knows we can do it as long we stay faithful in HIM.
That's why for me, love is patient and the most wonderful thing to exist :).
Happy lotting and thanks for a wonderful topic.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Thanks for sharing your story ghajini . I agree experiences make us strong and wise . God gives us the ability to bear the pain and suffering . Wish you good luck !
@Bashful87 (123)
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28 Sep 11
I love someone very much but I know it's not yet time for us to be happy together. I made such great sacrifice like letting him go. If you truly love him or her you'll make sacrifices just for this person.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
29 Sep 11
Thanks for sharing . Your words are so true . Good luck friend .
